I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship, with a special woman who can appreciate both my loyal monogamous devotion to her as well as my strong sense of compersion. Compersion is the inversion of jealousy and possessiveness. In relationships, it relates to the happiness someone finds in their partner seeking out and enjoying sexual and romantic intimacy with other people. Instead of feeling upset or threatened, I feel a sense of happiness for her because she is experiencing joy and pleasure.
To clarify, this is not about cuckolding, humiliation, or submission. It’s about deriving pleasure from my partner experiencing pleasure, whether it involves me or not, while being kind, supportive, and respectful of each other at all times. I don’t have to be there or watch, but I would at least want to discuss with my partner, openly and honestly, the pleasure that she felt so that I can derive pleasure from her experience. As a committed couple this would just be one part of our private sex life for our mutual benefit, in the overall context of a loving and loyal long-term relationship
I offer everything you could get with a more traditional relationship but with the extra dimension of you having complete freedom of sexual or romantic expression. Your body count, past, present, or future does not matter to me. Your use of this gift of comperion is only limited by your imagination. Even if you’d prefer to be (mostly) monogamous there are many ways for us to have fun with it. You could go out with male friends, flirt like mad, and you could confide in me all your daily turn-ons, your crushes, your erotic dreams, or your wildest fantasies which I would help make come true, if you wanted.
Basically, anything that would make most men jealous would only make me love you more.
I welcome all questions or comments from the intrigued, the intellectually curious, or the “just asking for a friend”.
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