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Hi!, I am looking for a special guy that I can be comfortable enough with to finally explore my bi side. I am married and not looking to change my situation. HOWEVER, I live alone most of each week and have a very flexible schedule. What I am looking for is more than a FB and less than a relationship. It is a FRIENDS with benefits situation that will start with a date. There's no chance of anything kinky happening until a comfort level and friendship is established.
I have had a skeletal standard membership on this site for years and never contacted anyone. I finally decided to update the profile, lay it all out there, and buy a membership and start dating.
I'm 5'10", 185, 34"waist, average body. I am moderately hairy but thoroughly manscaped. I am 6" cut, squeaky clean and determined to stay that way (safe = non-negotiable without verifiable testing). I'm definitely interested in meeting women, but primarily here to meet a guy.
I am looking for a special guy that I can be comfortable enough with to finally explore my bi side. What I am looking for is more than a FB and less than a relationship. It is a FRIENDS with benefits situation that will start with a date. There's no chance of anything kinky happening until a comfort level and friendship is established. I want a man to teach me how to please him, once we can trust one another
I am a manager of a contracting business. I'm sci-fi/fantasy nerd, I love history, and working around the house. I used to like to shoot, but seldom get to the range anymore. I play guitar (badly) and sing(worse). I recently got Netflix and Hulu and lately that's my primary hobby...embarrassingly.
Hopefully we have some of this in common?
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My Ideal Person:
I'm "ideally" looking for a top guy, probably older and larger than me, cut, light body hair, and sensually dominant but very patient and respectful. "Ideally" you are fit, but I can be attracted to most body types. Really, the physical isn't key, personality is.
You are definitely articulate, clean, and a good communicator. You have a great sense of humor, I love sarcasm and dark humor especially! Patience is a must; I am not a "hookup" guy. I will need to get to now someone before dicks come out, to be blunt. That means dates; like people did in olden times. Once I am comfortable with someone you will find that I am very open minded, but on the first couple dates I will probably be rather reserved. Frankly, I think I'd like to email a bit before the 1st date. I'm really only interested in the right guy, not the "right now guy"
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