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writerlemming  
I'm a writer in my 30's looking for love--actual love, not the porn version.
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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   January 2, 1979
(45 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Austin, Texas, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   5 ft 1 in / 154-157 cm
Body Type:   Prefer not to say
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Prefer not to say
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Gay/Lesbian
Speaks:   English, somespanish
Hair Color:   Blonde
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   I am new at this
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Liberal
Safe Sex:   Prefer not to say
Demeanor:   Prefer not to say

Personal
Body Decorations : Earring(s); None
Breast Size: C
Pubic Hair: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : No
Occupation: I'm a writer
Religion: Prefer not to say

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45 year old Woman in Austin, Texas, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for writerlemming
[B]Added Note:[/B] Don't touch me without my permission. Don't expect permission unless I know you very well. It's hard to know what to put here. I don't know what people would want to know, and I'm still learning about myself. I try to keep up with stuff as it occurs to me, so I'm often tweaking parts of my profile. Anyone is welcome to ask me stuff! (: [B]ABOUT ME[/B] I live in a city, but I'm not a city girl. I miss the stars, clean wind, and I wish we had more rainstorms for me to go walking in. My first love is books; I read voraciously. A close second is music. I also love movies, and high quality animation, but I haven't been watching them much, lately. Too busy. My tastes in most things are eclectic. Recommend me something you love or think is great, and I'll try to tell you what I think! I crave intelligent discussions with people over shared interests. In general, I'm mostly a nerd. Which is awesome. Because nerds are sexy. ;) I don't do casual sex; I don't do casual play. I will give myself to someone I love, either romantically or if they're a very close female friend. No one else. I look forward to finding either (friendship or love), as I explore my BDSM community both in r/t and online. (: I have no problem with others who have casual sex or play, or the concept of it--provided everyone plays safe and minds health concerns. It's just not for me. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
How on earth does one come up with an 'ideal person'? How does one sit down and imagine who their forever is going to be? It seems to be a bad idea to get such an image set in your head. Once you've get it settled there...you could become so fixated on it, that you'd miss the real thing if/when it does come along.

And besides...who really thinks they can know what person love will bring us to? Love is that thing that comes out of nowhere, a miracle insubstantial, that can't be proven, but only felt. I find it crazy that we're supposed to know what that'll be, before we ever find it.

That's what keeps running through my head, whenever I sit down to try and touch up this section....
I can write what I hope for, or what I imagine...but no one can know what...or who...it will bring.


While it's true that I once identified as pansexual, I have no interest in men right now, and I'm not even sure if I ever will again. To be clear: I'm looking for a WOMAN, only. As to my definition of "woman", a transgendered person who identifies as a woman, is welcome to contact me. I'm open to it. For friendship only, anyone is welcome.

Absolute musts for love (or friendship either): honesty, respect and trust. I hope for someone who isn't judgemental. Who doesn't make promises lightly, and doesn't break them. I look for trustworthy, and dependable. Tolerant and accepting of differences. Values diversity. Someone kind and silly. Serious when it matters. Someone who likes animals, and small towns, and climates that have snow.

I hope for someone with a great sense of humor. I hope we make each other laugh. I hope she lets me hold her if she's tired or sad. I hope she lets me hold her for no reason at all. I hope she lets me love her every second of every day of our lives. I hope she lets me serve her for the rest of our lives, too. I hope she loves me back just as much.

*wince*.....and, yes, I'm completely inexperienced at D/s. So, I need someone who is willing and able to safely train a newbie in the art of submission without breaking her will, spirit, or heart.

WARNING Any institution, media or person using this site or any of its associated sites: You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures, information from my profile, or anything I post in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form or forum both current or future without prior written consent. You do not have my permission to copy, save, print, or re-post my pictures or information without prior written consent. If you have done or do any of the above, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and personal property and will be subject to all legal remedies.


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