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OK, so not so newly single anymore but still single, sigh. I'm an outgoing, independent, intelligent woman who is submissive by nature and done trying to force myself to act in a dominant manner. I can make my own decisions, I do earn my own money, and I can do things on my own. I just don't want to!!
To me, being submissive means wanting to please someone 'for myself'. I am the one who benefits. It is 'my' basic need that is being fulfilled. I believe a D/s relationship is like ying and yang, both 50% but different and, together, making a whole.
I read this in a story and it perfectly encapsulates my feelings:
I need to trust. And communicate. I need to know I am truly cared for and that my needs are important. I want to know whether I am doing well or not. I need to make 'my man' happy and I need to know I am succeeding. I want to truly and actually adore him. For he 'would' be mine in my submission, just as I would be 'his' in his Domination. I want to trust him implicitly and I want to allow myself to be what my Dominant wants, while at the same time be taken to where, in his heart, he knows I want to go.
So, if you think you can handle a girl with a brain, who isn't just looking to hook up and get laid (because really, I can do that at the bar down the street), drop me a line.
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