I'm 31, live and work in London as a web designer. Currently very happy and in an open relationship with my gf and sub of 2 years. She's in Glasgow which does make it challenging but also gives us an incentive to make the most of every moment we have together, usually leaving her marked, so people know she belongs to me till I see her again.
I'm Into movies, television and gaming, geeky but not much of a fanatic. I indulge in photography, sight seeing and general shenanigans whenever I hang out with friends. I'm generally the quiet type who prefers listening to talking but open up once you know me. I'm usually the guy who's in the corner at the party but one you'll always crawl when you need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on.
I treat other Doms and Subs as I would like me and mine to be treated. Unattached subs are meant to being taken, with consent of course. While subs who are attached to their respective Doms are off limits except for having social interactions with. I'm open to being friends but I'm not going to go behind your Doms back to train/use you.
I'm also not into scat, play, caning, foot worship, humiliation, branding, scarring and some other stuff that I'll add later as situations arise.
My method of domination involves breaking subs to build them back up so they can serve me better. I don't break them so they can be mindless dolls. I bring pleasure and pain in equal measure to push you past your limits. One way or another I will make you scream.
How Did I Get Into This?
I've been engaging in active BDSM play as a Dom for 2 years now. I was introduced to it by my current girlfriend/submissive. In terms of experience, on her I've used toys, wax, floggers, shibari, spanking, hypnosis, breath play, orgasm denial, orgasm control, public play and a couple of other things that I probably can't think of at the moment. I know my description is kind of different from what you see above, I guess being a Dom is an opportunity to let my devil out, have control and take what I want.
What I'm looking for?
I'm always looking to meet new people in the scene, get to know them and learn how they see BDSM and share experiences with them and learn from those experiences. I'm a bit shy at first, open to conversation but don't really open up till I get to know someone. Those who make the effort will find will find someone worth knowing and those who don't... well it's up to you.
Results of my BDSM Test
91% Dominant
88% Bondage Giver
77% Brat Tamer
75% Daddy/Mommy
75% Voyeur
71% Degradation Giver
70% Experimentalist
70% Sadist
69% Primal (Predator)
58% Master/Mistress
49% Primal (Prey)
43% Brat
43% Vanilla
41% Exhibitionist
41% Non-monogamist
38% Submissive
24% Girl/Boy
20% Pervert
9% All-Rounder
4% Bondage Receiver
4% Slave
4% Switch
0% Degradation Receiver
0% Masochist
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What I'm Looking for on here?
Since I'm in London and my gf is in Glasgow I'm always looking to meet new people in the scene who I can hang out and spend time with. I'm not looking for a relationship as I'm happy with the one I'm in.
We are looking for an active female partner in Glasgow to act as a third in our sessions. Ideally she would be a sub and open to being dominated by my gf in her role as a switch. Open to one offs which could become a permanent thing if we get along.
Also looking for subs local to London to meet and have one offs with. As I said we are in an open relationship but that doesn't mean I'm looking to replace her. You could join us when she's in London as well, I warn you though she's a screamer.
If you're interested drop me a message. I prefer to meet the person before a play session, gauge their limits and learn their fetishes. If you're only looking to do the deed sight unseen I might not be the person for you.
Also I have thing for Japanese women, don't know why just do. So if you are one, you're probably coming to the front of the line.
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