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I am a relative newcomer to this adventure. I am interested in the B&D portion of BDSM, and not so much the S&M aspect. In part, this is out of necessity. I was injured in the Army (resultantly, I walk like a drunk pirate and speak like a drunk pirate with a head cold) and my lack of fine motor skills when combined with a preference for enthusiastic sex has led me to believe I might be better suited to have sexual encounters with individuals who are not seeking purely gentle vanilla sex (perhaps I should just label it vanilla (+)). Sweat is a wondrous thing. So are toys.
It's rather interesting; though I never considered myself a Dominant, I have always been identified as an, "Alpha Male," and many women have told me that I am naturally dominant. I don't mind taking the lead, but I am not a Master.
Unlike the former President, I have average size hands, but I have an above average imagination and a lot of patience.
I enjoy cooking with or for somebody; usually involving jazz or the blues and wine (for or with somebody -- otherwise, food is merely fuel). Most significantly, I want someone that I can mutually explore sexual boundaries with.
I had too many years of straight vanilla. Figured it was time for some Rocky Road.
Thanks much.
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