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cailean  
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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   September 2, 1977
(46 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Close to Amsterdam, Netherlands
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   180-182 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Master's degree
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   Dutch, English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Green
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   Prefer not to say
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   One to five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Prefer not to say
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Little
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/
Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Religion: Not applicable

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46 year old Man in Close to Amsterdam, Netherlands Looking For: Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Groups

Profile for cailean
Hello everyone, Nice that you are interested in my profile. It is very appreciated! After a long term relationship with no room for BDSM and D/s feelings, as the partner wasn’t interested, i am single again. It was a hard time, but i am back at my feet again. I can see that, being single again, i am able to explore the feelings that have been put away for such a long time. Feelings that, when looking back, have started since my teenage time. Apparently you can try to hide these feelings, but they come back again and again, and stronger each time. I am still finding out my place. I feel that my submissive side is very strong. It makes me who i am. That doesn’t mean i am a weak person. I can lead, i can guide and mentor people. But i prefer to follow someone strong who i can learn from. But that position is not for everyone and there definitely need to be a connection with that person. But this feeling can be wonderful and hope i find that one day. I am motivated for that! In my professional life, i am very dedicated, focussed and have many responsibilities. And i am very comfortable with that. But it would be a wonderful feeling to leave all the responsibilities and decision making for a moment and to focus at my Domme. To focus at Her, to trust her, and to let her work with me. I can’t wait to give my trust to someone and build something special. I am openminded, i don’t judge people fast and am always interested in others interests and feelings. I am a curious personality, am very involved with others, but i can be a very shy man too. I would love to meet people who are genuine and actively involved in the BDSM and D/s lifestyle. To make friends, to talk about feelings and experiences, to learn, and to explore. I would be thankful to meet people who are open to share their experiences with me. One day i hope to meet a Domme that can help me to start in the lifestyle. Please don’t hesitate to approach me if you are interested or just curious in me. I am thankful and happy with any contact in this lifestyle. Also i would love to meet genuine submissives where i can exchange experiences and dreams with. With kind regards, Cailean [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
Kind, openminded and genuine people that are active in the lifestyle. Who are open and happy to help new people to start in the lifestyle.

I am really thankful if you approach me. You can expect a serious, kind and polite answer back. I would love to talk.


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