My Ideal Person:
I am generally seeking a sub that has her or perhaps his own fantasies and can tell me what she wishes for in order to add to the relationship. You should be free and able to experiment with new things, and tolerate some pain. My main focus is mind games and setting up scenes to distract the brain from everyday life. If you are compliant,safe, and experimental contact me. I am looking for people whom I am compatible with friendship wise as well as sexually. My ideal is again educated and d/d free. I am looking for an ongoing arrangement in which compatibility and trust may be established. I seem to warm up slowly to people in this department. I am very creative and outgoing. I wish for a submissive who is into mind games and preconstructed scenes. My sub is not a door matt. He/she is strong, efficient, and able to negotiate his/her needs. If you are looking for a play partner with little more you should be attractive and available to meet on a regular basis. Either way you should be available and know that I have a expectations of you. If your looking for no strings look else were. I find people that preach no expectations do so because they have nothing to offer. You should just be available as mine to take and be open about letting me know that you are. If you please me and let me know your wishes I will eventually take care of your fantasy...usually as a surprise. I love planning surprises to fulfill people.

I have come to realize over this last few years what we need and what we want are often very different things. These are somethings ive learned get me every time from potential submissives. I even consider them needs from a domme standpoint. 1. A higher awareness of my needs and a natural tendency to care. I am not authoritarian or strict in any way though I do have my little foibles. Some would say otherwise I think but this is my feel on things. I do not like to have to ask for things. When someone takes notice on their own accord because they are interested in the little things, that really don't matter, I take notice and tend to care quicker. I like to own a certain amount of a submissives awareness when I am in the room. 2. I like to feel needed for whatever little purpose it is I'm needed for. I have a soft spot for that puzzled look when I go to do something else abandoning a sub. If I see this I will naturally be inclined to give you more guidance on what you should be doing next. This has mostly happened to me in my vanilla relationships and ive brought up kink slowly because I feel they are naturally submissive. Coming right into kink with another experienced kinkster I often feel things are too forced. I tend to not be dominant when someone shows an expectation for it and pushes. So translating this to the experienced kinky world I think would run along the lines of this. I am a starter, a builder, and an ender. If you try to start something for me I will feel odd about it. Show me your need and ill try work from there. Otherwise, if I like you, ill try and not do so well with whatever it is I'm doing.

I am poly but am looking for the one. The one lover, sub, dom/me, best friend, sugar daddy, princess, vanilla lover ext. In other words I am greedy. I am looking for everything I can acquire. I am young and still want the world. If I seem indecisive to you it is probably because I am looking for your purpose or spot in my life. If I contact you it is for a specific reason. I used to expect the same from people but have come to realize other people really do just call to say hi. I dislike people having no purpose to me and once I decide I want something from you I may start pushing and pulling from a few different directions to see what will work for us. This is not indecisive as Ive made the decision to try put you somewhere. I find little patience for people whom have no place and will eventually cut people off whom refuse to work with me. I am odd about needing to know exactly what is going on and cannot help it. I know it sounds like I want allot but keep in mind I expect no one label bias from any one person. You don't need to be smart, knowledgeable, always entertaining, rich, beautiful, you don't have to pull the stars from the sky. Just free your mind and know what you do and do not have to offer.

All that being said, this profile is probably entirely too long, boring, and makes me sound full of myself. lol. I am more flexible than writing makes me sound. I am young and happy learning whatever new things and ideas come along. I am still building the profile of what my life and love should look like and trying out different shades of the same color paint. To quote what a dear friend said about me...I am just me trying on different shades of paint for the same sections of my basic profile. If you have no true colors well I have a section for rainbow paint some were in the basement.