Although i have a tendency to be a little shy at first, i soon get over that and my natural warmth and friendliness comes out.
I am seriously looking for a life partner so I'm not interested in one night hook ups. I need to feel a real connection with someone and build a bond of trust and communication. Shared interests both kinky and vanilla are also essential.
I love music and sing myself for my own pleasure, books (novels, poetry, non fiction), films, writing ( i write erotic stories and currently working on my first novel), Films, Art, Theatre/museums/galleries, spending tine with friends and family, cooking, adult coloring and many more.
First discovered D/s 20 years ago by reading Nancy Friday. It was a revelation, feelings that I'd always had I suddenly had a name for.. I wasn't the only one... it was ok to feel this way.
Then came self acceptance (slowly)
Too scared to try talking to my friends about it at the time, I waited and fantasized in secret.
Then about 12 years ago I got my first computer and in my spare time started exploring. I soon discovered alt.com and there I met someone who was first a Mentor, then he became my Dom then later my Master. We were together for 12 years. He had a open marriage with his wife so I was his kink on the side.
This is no longer enough for me.
I want and need to be in a monogamous relationship with someone long term and hopefully more.
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I am looking for a Dom/Master. Honest, intelligent, caring, imaginative, sense of humour, respectful, with varied interests in and out of the Lifestyle.
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