Looking for a full time relationship where we share life and I can be the leader. Very experienced and open minded. Single, sane, reasonable, and tell puns as well as have a good sense of humor. Educated with an active mind, a real nerd, understand how everything around us works, also keep up with current knowledge on how the brain works. Teach at a University, read, go to ballet, symphony, love most music except any genre that has soft in its title or country. Have traveled to around 68 countries, race Auto Cross and Rally Cross, looking for a navigator for TSD Rally. Am intelligent so I am not conservative and I am not superstitious.
Been in 'the lifestyle' for decades and have extensive experience in all the things people come to this site looking for. Have been, in the past, very active in the community, run play space and given demos at conventions. Not much on the kink list that I am adverse to.
I have had several long term relationships over the decades. What type we will have depends on real communication to develop a style that works for both of us. I will put everything I have into our relationship.
My past relationships:
Fairly vanilla, where a few things were agreed and my natural personality was accepted.
A relationship where she was really into the kink and did not like being with a dominant person. That I do not want. You must want a power exchange more than just spanking or what ever.
A relationship where I completely controlled her at a micro-manage level, including what she ate and everything. Not what I wanted.
A relationship with casual power exchange and with some kink, which lasted for 22 years.
I am open to developing a relationship that works for us and allows us both to be the people we really are, with honesty and communication.
With me you will always know what is expected and why.
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My Ideal Person:
Submissive, intelligent, not too plump, horny, open minded, and ready to start a 24/7 life. Some one that is willing to put as much effort as me into creating a lasting relationship where we can both be who we are, I am dominant, you are submissive. Some one that wants the freedom of being in a structured environment with a mentally powerful man.
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