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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   July 23, 1960
(63 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Copperas Cove, Texas, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a cigar/pipe smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Master's degree
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English, Southern
Hair Color:   Hair? What Hair?
Hair Length :   Shaved
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   {"4973":"Adult Breastfeeding|2|2","7":"Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play)|2|1","68":"Whips|2|1","17":"Chastity Devices|1|1","2":"Age Play|2|1","1":"24/7 (Total Power Exchange)|3|6","88":"Fire Play|1|1","18":"Chains|3|1","72":"Humiliation|3|1","16":"Candle Wax|3|1","44":"Masks|2|3","84":"Oral Sex|2|6","27":"Depilation/Shaving|3|1","57":"Role Playing|3|6","75":"Pantyhose/Stockings|1|3","40":"Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema)|2|1","61":"Master/Slave|3|6","20":"Cling Film|2|1","14":"Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.|2|1","59":"Sadism|3|6","49":"Spanking/Paddling|3|6","24":"Cupping (Suction of the Skin)|3|1","89":"Bukkake|2|1","10":"Blood|2|1","31":"Domination|3|1","11":"Body Hair|2|2","78":"Sensory Deprivation|3|6","79":"Sex During Menstruation|2|2","22":"Coprophilia (Shit Play)/Scat|2|1","46":"Nipples|3|2","13":"Branding|1|1","23":"Collar and Lead/Leash|3|1","65":"Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine)|3|1","6":"Ass Play|3|1","50":"Play Piercing|1|1","85":"Anal Sex|2|1","3":"Knife/Needle Play|2|1","51":"Piercings|3|6","9":"Blindfolds|2|1","58":"Rubber|2|4","12":"Bondage|3|1","15":"Confinement/Caging|2|1","52":"Power Exchange|3|6","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|3|1","60":"Scent|3|6","56":"Rimming|2|2","37":"Gangbangs|2|1","73":"Lactation|3|6","43":"Leather|3|6"}
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Suit
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Facial Hair: Goatee
Body Hair: Hairy
Body Decorations : Body Piercings
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Married
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Occupation: Consultant
Religion: Christian

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63 year old Man in Copperas Cove, Texas, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for SouthernDomGent
Updated: April 21, 2022 If any of the following statements cause you to answer ‘no’ then you should probably pass me by. There is a high probability that I will not be interested in you as a potential prospect. I want to be honest with you and not waste either person's time or energy. 1. You are not financially and/or emotionally responsible for an . 2. You are a citizen and residing in the USA or Canada. 3. You are a minimum age of 25 years old. 4. You are a slave, not a submissive. My definition of a slave is one that desires to be totally subordinate in status and in role. If you need to retain any part of your personal power or self-control in a relationship, that means you are a submissive by my definition and we are probably not a good fit. If you do not desire to retain any personal power or self-control, and crave to trust a man enough to give that level of control to him. If you are thrilled when you are in service to a highly intelligent man that is honorable and trustworthy enough. To the point that you believe your life is better with him in it, because he will make your life decisions better than you will. Please continue to #5. 5. You have no major medical conditions. You are willing to disclose all medical history, no matter how small. If you are under a physician’s care for any reason, we can discuss it. You will be required to maintain your own dental and health insurance. 6. You are fully mentally stable. If you do have a condition that requires management by medication, you should be fully under a physician's care and be able to prove it. Still here? 7. You enjoy penetration in all three holes. An oral fixation does help. 8. You have a true love of the forbidden. 9. My limits are few, yours should be as well. I will listen to your choices and discuss them with you. I realize some people cannot do or say yes to everything, but you should want to do what pleases me. Remember you want to be a slave to me. The relationship will be out of balance if the reverse occurs. That I will NEVER allow. 10. You desire to live in my house as a member of a Master/slave principled, polyamorous-based family. I do not have a monogamous or jealous bone in my body. Neither should you. 11. You have a valid driver's license. Yes, your DMV record will be checked since you will probably go on my family auto insurance policy. 12. You are totally alcohol and drug free. If you pass all interviews and are taken into "consideration", you will be tested for a wide range of drugs. If you are in a "12-step" program, you must prove your sobriety and have a minimum of one year in your program. You will be expected to maintain your recovery in your program. If you choose to quit your program at any time, you will be immediately dismissed! Your recovery must always be more important than your term of service to me. Starting to hear crickets… 13. You are financially trustworthy. Everyone has something in their past. As long as you are honest with me, in time, it can be fixed. If you are formally considered, you will submit to a credit check. If you are going to have access to my family's finances, I need to be sure that you are trustworthy. 14. You do not smoke or use tobacco of any kind. I do smoke a fine cigar on special occasions but nothing more. A tobacco screen will be included in the alcohol/drug screen. Seriously! 15. You love serving as a gentleman's. You know how to dress well and never embarrass your Sir in public. You will get bonus points if you can recite the 3rd act of La Boheme and/or know where “Tin roof rusted” comes from. To curtsy, having a gentleman open your car door, order for you at a restaurant, if any and/or all of the above make you wet, then read on. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I am searching to build my Master/slave authority-based family.

I am looking for someone very special with the following traits: a true servant's heart, the gift of mercy, good domestic and healthy culinary skills are a plus. The heart is the most important trait

I serve as Master and Head of the Household. My family functions as a Taken in Hand, 50's lifestyle home. Wanting to live in that type of environment is a must for any future prospect. I will not change my way of life to suit you.

My house would be ideal for someone with a true slave’s heart that desires to totally focus on service and living the life of a slave that many dream of, but few have the privilege to make a reality. I live in a "no guilt - no shame - no chaos - no drama" environment. Unconditional acceptance is a cornerstone of my house. I am a very patient gentleman and willing to take the time to find the best fit for my house and family.

I work very hard to live a healthy life. I meet with a personal trainer 3x a week and focus on a healthy diet that has caused a total reversal of my former diabetic condition.

I am blessed to have been a student and practitioner of the Master/slave way of life for 35 years as of November 1985. I love it with all my heart and would not change it for anything in this world. I have fulfilling relationships with my family of choice that are important to me at this stage of my life. I have made some bad decisions for me in the past and learned some hard lessons from them. I have learned that karma, the golden rule, or whatever name works for you, is real. What goes around comes around. Wounds do heal and life does renew itself if you let it.

My title describes me in every sense of the word. I am a professional white collar gentleman. I love my life and live it to the fullest. I do have a kind, gentle side with a great sense of humor but can be very intense and aggressive when the need arises. I love to have fun.

I realize that there is a difference between fantasy and reality. I hope to keep that line very close and tight. My preference is for fun, romance, and intensely passionate BDSM play. I tend to prefer beautiful and passionate full-figured woman. I know the difference between the real and the wannabe.

It is my practice in my intimate relationships that the Male is in a superior position, while the female is in a (voluntary) inferior/subordinate position. I cannot have an intimate relationship with a female where both partners are equal. I believe women are in the proper place when they are the property of men. I seek a female that chooses to be a lesser vessel; to be loved, cared for and led by a man. I believe that men should function as the Head of Household (HOH) and that women are to be taken in hand and led as such.

I do have a Prince Albert piercing with 8 gauge Circular Barbell that looks great (so I am told). (If you do not know what that is feel free to ask me or Google it.)

I have met some wonderful people here. But some do not understand this way of life at the level of intensity that I desire it. I define a slave is one that has voluntarily chosen to surrender her will, personal power, and self-control to her partner (Master) and chooses to become totally subservient in status and role to her partner in the relationship. I fully understand that all is negotiable but this is my dream. If you lose your dreams, your passion dies. I am too passionate about this way of life for that to happen.

One more important point, I am a man of faith. I do not make any excuses for it. I will never force my beliefs upon any one. It is what keeps my life in focus.

If you have made it this far and are still interested then we should probably talk. I look forward to having an open and honest dialog with you and getting to know you better.


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