I am neurodivergent. I have come to understand that I communicate differently. I believe in clear, honest communication. Such clarity lets me see you, and meet you where you are at.
I am disabled. Learning to live with that is an ongoing transformative journey.
I am demisexual. If I express interest it’s in knowing you, sexual attraction comes later. This provides a foundation for long term relationships.
I have been involved in public and private play for more than 20 years. Over that time I have come to embrace servant mastery and leather traditions. I appreciate both variety and intensity in scenes. I am primarily on the left side of the slash.
I am a private person. When I do share it is from the heart, with intense emotion. As I get to know someone, I engage authentically and transparently.
Compassion and empathy are the essence of human connection. Connection is bidirectional.
I am drawn to the feminine in partners, both the physical and the ephemeral, and in its myriad variations.
Everyone has limits. Some are choices. Some are related to the events in our past. Some are dependent on the level of trust. Limits can be approached, adjusted, and perhaps overcome. This requires thought, intention, and a safe and trusting environment. Not every limit needs to be tested. Not all limits are known. MS is a path of self discovery. Compassion, conversation, empathy, and connection allow that discovery to happen in a safe and trusted manner.
I have a wide range of experience and interests. I enjoy edgy activities. There is plenty of room for overlap with a partner. Not every interest needs to be shared.
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My Ideal Person:
Looking for someone with strength and depth, who is up for a challenge and open to experiences.
A fellow traveler on life’s journey.
Willing to invest in connection.
Who can relax into structure, without requiring micromanagement.
Fetish, kink, and BDSM are a sumptuous feast. Come dine with me.
Willing to explore the depths, be it in stages, and occasional visits, or diving into the deep end.
Find the serenity in surrender.
Interest in service to something greater - community, society, a higher power, etc.
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