|
Attractive articulate man who communicates with honesty and depth through words, yet more brilliantly through touch, which can be an especially nuanced and expressive language. Years of natural healing practice have shown me some dimensions of touch, as has my responsible exploration of tantra. I know a lot about traditional and new age tantra, and draw elements from each, but my own approach is more human and improvisational. Physical and ethical safety are paramount, and nothing will happen, not even intimate touch just with hands, unless we both are comfortable, and attuned. I am not wanting to audition you to be The One, nor to be auditioned. I seek sustained, committed relationship when it is right, but acknowledge the validity of other kinds of connection, as long as both partners seek the good, the safe unfolding, and the delight of the other. I'm open to a one-time conversation at a cafe, without any pressure for more; to offering a gift of healing massage; to a OneTaste or tantric session with carefully circumscribed limits; to a dazzling, life-altering exploration of tantric healing forces; or to the artistic mingling of the artistic and the kinky if that beckons as a fun and humanly deepening direction. All touch, even the most enticingly intimate, should, from my point of view, be approached with respect for the autonomy, energetic integrity, and uniqueness of the other.
The erotic, with its infinite beauty, matters to me, but only insofar as it is in service to a sweet human relationship brimming with compassion, playful reverence, reciprocal learning and good spiritual adventure. I'm 5' 9", 158 lbs, do lots of yoga, martial arts and dance. A good face. I seek someone who, like myself, is simultaneously old and young, and in touch with both ancient and childlike qualities.
The kind of kinkiness I am open to exploring is adventuresome, and calls on many modes of being human. The goal is not to fixate on any act,, but to awaken many modes of being human, in a way that makes "normal" sex more profound.
I love to combine erotic exploration with healing. Here is an example of a kind of touch I would offer if it feels right to both of us:
My study of applied kinesiology, acupressure, and various kinds of massage led to a form of body work that is somewhat original. I have a knack for opening lymphatic, vascular and acupuncture energy flow to all the organs and glands of the internal body, and for listening with my hands to the way the sensitive surface of the body yearns to be touched for healing and delight. Unlike many forms of "energy" work that send a generic energy to the person receiving the treatment, I modulate my energies to the unique person, and do so in a way that offers a non-intrusive communion and gift. I welcome and listen to both verbal and non-verbal responses to my touch, and adjust accordingly. Though I am a writer, touch is to me a more native language, and my hands offer more insights than my words could ever convey.
After giving a therapeutic massage of this kind, it is an option, if both of us feel an impulse we trust, to explore a more intimate dimension of touch. Once the internal body, in its energies and modes of being, is awakened, the erotic energies can move like a fountain through the whole body. The artistic mingling of healing and erotic touch are among the beckoning possibilities of a connection grounded in unwavering good intention and frolicsome respect.
[if254 1]
|
2,386 Members Online NOW!
