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I am a well educated, adult, single, male in search of single females or males (29 - 48 y.o.). Please be aware, I am not interested in anyone older than me. I am 58y.o., 5’9”, 175lbs with a slender, athletic build [see pics]. I relate mostly to a nontraditional Gothic Master role (No it has nothing to do with "Evil", "Satan worshiping" or "Dead offerings", etc.). If you wish to understand further, just ask me.
I cherish playfulness, honesty and a willingness to learn and explore. Protocol and structure are important. Just as important as open and honest communication and mutual trust. I am DDF, and would like to keep it that way. Locals only please. I am done with the long distance thing, so please, Locals only.
I am not new to the BDSM scene. I practice Shibari and Kinbaku. I practice suspensions and have made my own suspension arch for this purpose [see image in my pics]. I have come to this site to learn more and to explore the world of rope bondage with local bottoms who enjoy and get excited by being tied and suspended. Although this is my interest, it is not something that must occupy my every moment.
I am a Sadist. I love to spank and use whips, quirts, floggers, canes and belts. I am not into creating permanent marks or damage on the bottoms I play with. I adjust to the pain tolerance of my bottom. I believe kink to be more about stimulation of the mind .. physical is just a method that the mind has to collect the data .. a very wonderful method, but still just a method! Therefore, it is the mind that I seek to Dominate, before I am offered the heart and spirit of an s-type. Have I mentioned that I am seeking locals only!!
Although I do not necessarily seek a 24/7, I tend to be dominant in all aspects of my daytime life; should what I seek develop into a 24/7, so be it! Despite this, I require a balance between the vanilla world and my kink/style. The s-type that successfully becomes mine, must understand that a vanilla appearance must be maintained in public. While in the privacy of my home, it is understood that I am Master! Discretion and privacy is a mandate and non-negotiable.
I am a good listener and I pay attention to detail. I initially treat all as equals; with dignity and respect. I pride myself on being a chivalrous gentleman. This does not mean that I am a weak or a mild Dominant. I am gentle and sensuous when it is called for; and a stern disciplinarian when need be. I am clearly a Top / Dominant, so do not misinterpret my soft and caring side.
Being a Master is more than a role and I take it very seriously. I do not assume power and control just because I have a title or because I am Dominant. I am of the mind that one must earn respect and trust and not demand it because of a title. If respect and trust is garnered, then your submission will follow. The gift of submission is one that I value and cherish deeply. It is not something that should be given or accepted easily. I do not seek a 'mindless' submissive / slave. It is not my intention to think for you. Do not misunderstand, I will take complete control once it is surrendered, but I do not expect mindlessness from s-types.
Personal boundaries:
I do not respond well to being referred to with cutsie “terms of endearment” in your first few statements or messages to me. As I mentioned above, I will demonstrate respect and dignity with those that I chat; I expect the same in return.
Limits:
Like most others I am not into scat, breath play, partners or illegal activity. If you have no picture in your profile or have not sent one with your first contact , I will ignore you. I am not really into humiliation and degradation but it is something that I might lightly explore with the right person/s. I am not into adult babies or diapers. I have no interest in play/scene with anyone older than me, Dominants, "bears" or straight males. I do not care for facial hair or body hair. s-types must be clean shaven. An s-type must be fit, healthy, and height and weight proportionate. I have had very bad experiences with overweight [45 lbs+ over my own weight] s-types so I will not do that again. Other limits and boundaries will be shared as I get to know you.
After thoughts:
I thank those who come to my page and read and share with me .. Ok, so before you ask .. I do not have other IM services or vanilla social media accounts .. I am tolerant, but do not push it on me .. Nicotine is absolutely a deal breaker!! I will not play with those that smell or taste of cigarette smoke!!
I must explain .. I do not jump into bed/play/scene with just anyone .. s-types (submissives, slaves, switches, sluts, pets, etc) who are interested in being considered by me must request to enter into trials with me .. Trials is the period of time that we have to check each other out to see if there is chemistry. Chemistry is important .. without chemistry .. I am not involved!! Trials is the opportunity that you have to impress me as the s-type that you are. It is an opportunity to learn each other to see what can develop. Tasks will be issued to aide me in my efforts towards consideration of the s-type. If for whatever reason the s-type does not meet my expectations. I will be clear about that and will move on if it cannot be worked out. Depending on how things evolve, I may just vanish particularly if the relationship develops drama.
BIG PET PEEVE: If you say you are going to do something then do it!! "Say what you are going to do: do what you say" also "Say what you mean: Mean what you say". A violation of this will never go well. When this is violated, it damages the relationship and trust. If such a violation occurs during trials, then its is over and done. I will simply vanish. "Be impeccable with your word" this is something I value very highly.
I leave this account open and receptive in the hopes of perhaps finding worthy gems in the rough .. I will engage in limited response to accounts without pictures .. PLEASE, LOCALS ONLY!!!! If you have no pictures in your account, I will limit my responses .. At this point in time, I cannot see your account. So, if you wish me to know more about you, the challenge is yours to share what you feel is pertinent .. Once I have decided to subscribe, if I cannot view your page, I will limit my contact with you. Boundaries and limits are imperative in this lifestyle; respect them and we will get along just fine.
Trials:
I am asked quite often "What are Trials??" and "What does it involve??". Trials is the period of time that a D-type takes to assess and evaluate the worthiness of an s-type. It is a time during which an s-type will demonstrate their worthiness and what it is that they can offer the D-type. It is through this process that the D-type will demonstrate their maturity, safety skills and earn the respect of the s-type. The Dynamic must be based on a higher level of trust than is normally found among vanilla relationships.
If you are seriously considering entering into trials with me, your request must include a facial image and a full body image. If this does not happen, I will know that you are not serious. Please do not waste my time!! If you request my contact email or phone number within your first 2 messages to me, I will suspect that you are not serious or worse, and my discussion with you will end. The likelihood of you being blocked will be very good
[TBC]
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我的理想對象:
I seek single females/males/trannies that wish to serve a sensual fair and caring Dominant. I seek masochist that enjoy the feeling of being bound and used for my pleasure. We will need to learn each other before the desired level of intensity of play is reached. I have no need to rush into anything and it is extremely rare that I engage in casual play.
Please do not bother if you have no pictures posted or if you reside more than 75 miles from me (that includes if you reside in another country) I do not mind developing friendships, but my primary focus is to find a worthy s-type for my pleasure. If you are willing to relocate, do so first, before reaching out to me. I wish not to waste your time so please do not waste mine. I will know that you are not serious or that you are nothing more than a scammer if you ask me for my contact information within your first few messages to me. Or, if you do not answer my questions directly.
Although I tend to be drawn to slender and athletic women, more recently I have enjoyed playing with women who sport a few extra pounds. I prefer my males to be clean shaven and athletic; more so towards the twink end of the continuum. I have held several switches in my charge, but, as I mention in my main narrative, I stay away from those that identify as straight males, Dominant, bears, or Tops.
I respect committed relationships. I do not mind playing with couples, but they must be willing to play as a couple. I will not play individually with members of a coupleship until we have gotten go know each other very well.
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