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I believe BDSM is about the mental connection and balance.
I really love to control, discipline, degrade and humiliate. I do not think that will ever change - I have tried to analyse it but it is just one of those things I cannot explain. I love to push out from beyond just in the bedroom and head towards a more of a lifestyle type dynamic but I am a realist and know that I would never truly be 24/7 regardless of what the fantasies in my head tell me. (That's what I mean by balance - you need vanilla time and snuggles on the sofa watching Netflix - all that being said I would not let a sub/slave forget her place).
I'm afraid some online encounters have made me very cynical so I expect someone to be able to prove who they are with voice or video chat calls. I really do believe there are some amazing people out there and embrace getting to know someone online but I do want to find someone for real life encounters and perhaps more. I know this can happen as I have seen great friends from online chatting and even met a previous girlfriend online.
I am a caring and loving person but do not perceive this as weakness. As a Dom I like to push and control. I believe punishments should not be enjoyed so don't think that you are going to get away with just a spanking if you misbehave. I am evil and think I have a sadistic side that has not really been explored yet.
I am also a geek and regularly play board games. I like to play some racquet sports. I love a good binge watch of TV and love a good documentary.
Feel free to connect with me on FetL - HarshDegrading
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My Ideal Person:
I seek someone honest and loyal who has a good brain! Must be able to hold a good conversation (after she has been degraded and ruin - i.e. in the aftercare phase) . Someone to explore with and push towards my sadastic (and evil) side.
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