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HARDDOM2U  
GOOD LOOKING DOMINATE LOOKING FOR SUBMISSIVE WOMEN TO PLAY
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Member Since: October 22, 2008

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   March 3, 1962
(62 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Vancouver, Washington, United States
Travels to:   Honolulu, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type:   Athletic
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Blonde
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   {"8":"Masturbation|3|3"}
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Suit
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Average
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children : No
Occupation: finance
Religion: Catholic

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62 year old Man in Vancouver, Washington, United States Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women)

Profile for HARDDOM2U
I AM AN INTELLIGENT, STRONG, HARD MINDED, YET PATIENT AND CARING, SEXUALLY DOMINANT, WHO IS INTO TOTAL POWER EXCHANGE, AND DOMINATION AND DISCIPLINE. I CAN HELP YOU REFINE YOUR BURNING DESIRE FOR SUBMISSION, AND SQUARE IT WITH THE OUTWARD STANDARDS THAT OTHERS IN SOCIETY HAVE SET FOR YOU. I WILL HELP YOU PRESS YOUR LIMITS, SO THAT YOU CAN GAIN TOTAL ACCEPTANCE OF YOUR SUBMISSIVE ROLE, BY WHICH YOU CAN ACHIEVE THE SEXUAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL HIGH THAT YOU NEED AND ARE SEEKING. I am looking for a submissive women. I have been dominant all my life, since high school. If you are looking for a strong caring daddy figure, I am that, and understand what you are seeking. Please be breathtakingly wicked, part vixen, part angel, a temptress, who is honest with herself, knows who you are, and what you need and desire, and have the courage to take the necessary actions, and the necessary changes in your life, to achieve them. Be that sexy vixen running on fire with a constantly burring core of smoldering desire, who is intelligent, yet quirky, fun to be with and incredibly deep and multifaceted. I want to gain your submission, by helping you grow into the understanding of your submissive desire to be my filthy little , and dirty little slut, and then, I will lift you back up, to be my Queen, who I will cherish and protect. I am an intelligent, inquisitive dominant, so you won't be able to hide your inter self from me, no matter how hard you try, I will expect your complete capitulation, by your own choosing and volition. I will know everything about you from the dark corners of your dirty mind, and from the very top of your head to the tips of your toes. I am a very loving, kind, caring dominant man, but be worried, if you are rude of disrespectful, you will be punished, and you will remember the punishment that will be methodically metered out, to gain your complete capitulation and submission, and again you will accept this freely, and it will be of your choosing. You will come to understand, that the punishment you deserve, and desire, will always be fair and just, as I determine it to be, and you will come to accept my will as yours, and that it is final. I won't settle for a submissive bitch who is "good enough". You will be "the best there is", and I will expect it of you. The primary thing in your mind, will be the quality of your submission to me. Your submission to me, will become the very essence of your being, and will bring you the exquisite pleasure, and psychological, and sexual gratifications, that you need and desire, so very badly, and can only be obtained by your own free choice. You will be loved and cherished above all others, and you will know this from the pleasure of my touch and your suffering squeal. You will suffer for me as your cry out in sexual and physiological ecstasy, and will do so at my whim, and you will find contentment in doing so, knowing that the wetness of your pussy will always be rewarded with the spectacular orgasm you desperately desire. You will come to mind me completely out of your own volition to do so, but I do not want a mindless fool, and I would not treat you as such. I will approach you with respect, but you will know, and totally understand that you are, and will always be, my toy, my slut, my very personal , and my submissive bitch. I will use you in any manner I see fit, knowing that this use of you, for my pleasure, done only with your complete consent, will bring you the greatest psychological and sexual pleasure, that you could possibly obtain, and you will behave accordingly, in the submissive manner that comes from your inter being. I will expect you to open the door of your inter being, and let your true submissive essence out. I desire to own you, and with your consent, will cherish and protect you. Having said the above, please understand that I completely and totally understand and respect the act of submission, and specifically understand that it is a ENORMOUS GIFT of momentous proportion, by the submissive to the dominant. It is based on the true NEED and DESIRE of the submissive, by which the submissive CONTROLS THE RELATIONSHIP in a subtle, unspoken and indirect way, by the simple ability to leave and terminate the relationship at any time, or change the parameters or scope of the game whenever the submissive chooses. You will be the butterfly in the palm of my hand that can fly away whenever you choose, but stays, because your NEEDS AND DESIRES are being satisfied. I would always respect you and your wishes, and submissive NEEDS, DESIRES, and FANTASIES, based on the TRUST that we will have established together, and the contiguous dialog that we will have established. The dominant/submissive relationship is so much more difficult to establish, than a vanilla relationship, because of the complete, and high level of trust and honesty, and open ended dialog, that must be established, to say nothing of the extreme differences of individuals that think of themselves, as dominant, submissive, or switch. The power exchange between a dominant and a submissive is PLAY, JUST PLAY, and can only be more than that, if the submissive and the dominant choose, of their own free will, to make it into more! You are now asking yourself just who is this dominant man, and who am I, can I submit to him? I am a man that is unambiguous in what I am seeking, specifically, a genuine submissive/slave, "GENUINE" being the operative word; i.e., not a game player, not a pretender, not a bored housewife, and definitively NOT one of the trolls that seem to have over populated Alt. In my daily life I am a successful career professional, I was an U.S. Air Force Pilot and Intelligence Officer, an Economics Teacher in the University of Maryland System, and at the Air War College, as well as having started and operated many businesses from Florida to Hawaii and in several foreign countries. I have come to measure the mettle of those I come into contact with, and have NO patience for pretenders, or those that simply go through the motions of what is expected of them. In the submissive that I deem worthy of development, I insist upon genuine passion, honesty and sincerity with respect to being my property. And as stated, an accepted female will be subject to my usage and guidance, as I deem appropriate and/or desirable. You will be thoroughly evaluated to ascertain whether or not you warrant My time and effort. When you come to an understanding of who you are and what you really want out of life, and how you want to experience your true being, I will be waiting. I am the Master that has been the focus of all your erotic dreams and fantasies, that you have experienced since your earliest memories, which are manifestations of the desires and sexual and physiological needs that are your true essence, and very being. This is your identity, and essence which has been denied/hidden and masked by you in your attempt to assimilate into proper society and its artificial dictates. If you are ready to be freed from those artificial barriers and limitations of society, I can help you by releasing you, to live in the freedom of what you innately are, so that your life can be lived, as opposed to merely existing within the bounds of your constraints. Where you can be true to yourself, as opposed to a mere shell of your self, wallowing about, without any purpose of direction. The relationship with me, will not change you into something that you are not. You have already paid that PRICE, by your acceptance into normal society. I will just facilitate your getting in touch with your most basic emotions, needs and desires, and help you rid yourself of the conflicts that exists in the two worlds, that you attempt to function in. THE WOMAN THAT I SEEK, is a woman who knows that there is more to life than living under the restrictions of the vanilla world, where you are merely an actor playing a role that you are totally unsuited for. You sense the primal, sensual animal beast that long laid dormant within your aching being. You are a woman who is weary of being in control, because it is foreign to your core. You are a woman who fantasizes about being ONE's PRIZED PROPERTY, under whose care, the prior shame and guilt for even having such thoughts, can be purged by your loving and caring dominant man, so that the purity of your primal being can be realized, and developed to the optimum of your innate potential. A you a women that is intelligent, and who will eagerly embrace that which I develops cognitively within you, and who understands that this transcends mere kink, that knows that her mind must be engaged prior to that of her body, yet you know that your clit will become engorged and your pussy wet, as the fears and concerns the have confined you in the past, are dissipated, and vanish from you consciousness, CUM TO ME, I WILL COMFORT YOU AND HELP YOU OBTAIN THE PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SEXUAL BLISS THAT YOU ARE STRIVING TO OBTAIN. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
You know who you are, although you may never have allowed the reality of it all to surface, you know that you need training and development to allow that which has long been hidden to emerge. You know that while your life may be "tolerable" in many respects, there is SOMETHING missing!

As a female, you consider yourself as being highly sexual, but you also realize that your former or current partners, have had no idea what to do with you....leaving you empty and frustrated afterwords with a wet, hot pussy and a burning flame inside, where you literally hunger for that which you cannot verbalize, but the burning desire persists, for which you have no satisfaction, which often drives you to tears....as you know there is something more, but how can you obtain it?

You may be assertive and possess considerable authority at work, but you know that it is a charade, it is NOT who, and what, you are at your core. You are merely acting out a role that is expected of you. You know that you need control and direction....to be consumed by a Man whose power makes your slave soul transparent.

You must be literate, to be able to thoroughly respond promptly to all inquires as to who and what you are. If you can not find the time to do so, then I consider you as someone who is not serious or worthy of MY time or effort.

I expect that you will have come to the realization that what you seek, transcends mere kink; rather that it involves the synchronization of your mind, and emotions, and your overall sexuality, as well as that hot throbbing wet pussy between your legs with that hard erect clitoris. If you are deemed worthy of my time, I expect that your focus will be on Me and My development of you....where all else is tangential, unless I direct it to be otherwise. If you feel you can not spend the time or make the effort in doing so, please don't waste my time, or yours.

I am trim, attractive, physically fit, intelligent,and take excellent care of myself. Your cosmetic appearance is not as important to me, as your sincerity and genuine desire, which are the main things of consequence to me. I do expect you to be well groomed, clean,and physically fit. If you are attractive, intelligent, accomplished, and well educated, that would be a plus.


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