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NEW PROFILE June 2011
We are a newly married D/s Couple 42/30. Our dynamics generally revolve around Daddy/baby girl and we are both officially Spankos!
I've been Dominant for the past twenty years and she has been submissive for the past five years. Her role has been strictly submissive thus far, but we have been experimenting with her Dominant side. Lately, I've had a yearning to experience the submissive side within myself and my lovely wife tries her hardest to accommodate, but she has pure submissiveness running through her.
We are both interested in making some friends in and out of this realm. We are quite liberal in most aspects of life, but tend to carry a conservative facade when in public. I've been researching some of the local groups and look forward to meeting people locally.
Ideally, we would meet someone that was interested in providing some maternal guidance and discipline to either just myself or with the both of us. Getting together with other Dom/sub or Domme/sub couples is also of great interest to us.
Perhaps there is someone out there that would just enjoy email correspondence and sharing of ideas.
Please no rude, crude or XXX photos.....
This is not an invitation for sex. We both fully enjoy the psychological aspects of sharing our lifestyle with other people. We are not swingers.
OLD PROFILE -
Generally, I'm the Dom Daddy and it's been that way for the past 20+ years. I've been trying to investigate the submissive perspective, but my wife doesn't have a dominant bone in her body.
My wife is a complete submissive and a baby girl. My experience is with age play and the daddy/babygirl dynamic. Nurturing, protective, encouraging, etc....are all words that come to mind. However, when I am feeling overwhelmed with the submissive urges that rumble to the service, they manifest themselves as visuals of humiliation, forced diapering and regression, Chastity, early bedtimes, corner time, OTK spankings, being talked down to like a naughty boy, etc....
I'm not quite sure what to do with all of these feelings since I can't even start to give advice on how to dominate me, it's more difficult than I thought... trying to teach a submissive how to be dominant.
We aren't quite sure as to what it is we are looking for, but we are very open to suggestions and ideas. It would be nice to make friends locally to play with both in and out of the scene.
My wife says that she would be much happier if We could find someone that could be that maternal figure in our lives. We are not into leather, whips and chains.....well, ok...some leather. (she has a great corsette) The only leather I own are the Italian dress shoes in my closet.
A few ideas that we had to toss around:
#1 A maternal figure that would dominate both of us
#2 A Maternal figure that would mentor my wife in how to dominate (she just added that it's fine with her if she can just be the spoiled bratty little sister that always snitches on me.)
#3 Open for any ideas
I'm quite open and able to express myself and my thoughts quite clearly, so don't hesitate to ask for clarification on anything I've written or perhaps a continuation into details.
I'm retired Army (disabled, hurt leg) and also a painter/sculptor. My wife is a baby girl and domestic engineer.
The Photos: Me in a pair of FAMILY GUY Underoooos' w/ CB3000 underneath
my wife: Sleeping in her cot for her regular afternoon 2pm naps.
MY OLD PROFILE:
It's difficult to start since I have so much to share, but I feel that I'm so much more then my "Dominant" profile dictates. I have many persona's beyond what was listed, such as Friend, Lover, Dominant, submissive, artist, gardener, and collector. In real life, I feel all of the persona's equally throughout my day. One day, I may feel more Dominant than most. My artistic and creative outlook on the world is almost always present in one form or another. Lurking beneath the surface is a submissive streak that I'm still learning about...actually quite embarrassed about as well. I'm still working on embracing all the sides of me, but would love to share the experience with another open-minded person.
I'm most often in my Paternal persona which tends to be protective and nurturing. I enjoy spanking, role playing, regression, age-play, and anything else that springs up from either mine or your imagination.
Recently, I've spent my days working on my house and finishing up the gardens. A lot of my time has also been consumed with some new pieces that I acquired for my artifact collection. I read, study, research, and collect African and Oceanic artwork. When I'm not in the study, I can be found in the studio working on a painting or out in the garden building or planting something new. Don't let my interests lead you into imagining stereo-types, I'm an ex-infantry soldier, ex-bouncer, and ex-guardian angel. I've been described as a Big cuddly teddy bear that has a ferocious growl. :)
[B]The Dominant[/B]: Primarily focused on bringing my partner to where she needs to be...to the places she envisions her body and mind going. To facilitate an open stream of communication to learn about each other's desires and dreams without the fear of rejection. Allowing a safe place to investigate and experiment your mind's wildest imaginations.
[B]DaddyDom:[/B] Very nurturing and old fashioned. Enjoys age-play and regression. Lots of activities including cuddling, tickling, snuggling, bubble baths, massages, and road trips. (throwing road trips in here because I just really enjoy random road trips.. :) )
[B]Submissive:[/B] Not enough data: I'm still experimenting with this idea although I'm quite certain of the genre of submission. I explain the "why" of this submissive side in my earlier blogs. This side of me has never been explored with another person, just in fantasy or in private. Regression is the focus with the dynamic of Mother/. Nurturing and tender hands are what I yearn for when in this mode... I had an extremely rough childhood that lacked nurturing and it fills me with warmth when I get it. I imagine cute pajamas and lots of cuddling...(this is extremely hard to admit as my mind still sees this as quite emasculating.)
[B]Lover:[/B] A cross between Sean Connery and John Wayne! :) I love to take control with my lover submitting to my touches and caress. Warm body oils and blindfolds.. feathers and delicate touches. I could spend hours running my fingertips ever so slightly along the curvaceousness of your form. My rewards come from bringing pleasure and titillating the senses to put smiles on your face. I'm also very much into cuddling.. another constant in the equation..ok..fine.. I'm addicted to cuddling!! :)
[B]Artist:[/B] painter, sculptor, designer, muralist
[B]Gardener: [/B] Still learning, but love to make things grow.
[B]Psychologist:[/B] This part of me really enjoys deciphering how the mind works and how we relate to each other. I'm quite comfortable in expressing my dominant side and I've learned the How's and the Why's. I'm looking for someone that grasps the foundation of psychology and is open-minded enough to explore.
[B]The Spanker: [/B] What more can I say here... :) I do enjoy giving a good spanking...spanking is up on top of my priority list, right below breathing. Old fashioned over the knee bare bottom spankings, a quick little swat as you walk through the kitchen, a few slaps to your wet bottom during a shower together, etc... I have never been spanked but I've often wondered what it is like.
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我的理想對象:
We would like to start by looking for friends in the scene. The both of us look forward to joining local events. We are looking for an open mind that is attached to a nice, funny, down to earth woman or lesbian couple.
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