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allwoman4you2
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Anybody want to tell me...

why some people on here have to be so immature?

I had received several messages from the same male (can't call him a man and you will understand why in a moment)

Each of these messages made it obvious that he was looking for a woman that would be the Dominant one in the interaction.

Finally deciding he was missing the point when I wouldn't reply I used the quick response to let him know we were looking for different things.

His response:

Gawd, you are right...I didn't realize you are like 600lbs....sorry to bother you

In my book not only was there no need for a response but to make that kind of response (and to be off the mark on the weight too) I don't understand why somebody would do that?

Should I have just let him keep trying and trying with no response? Or is it better when you can see they don't realize you are not looking for the same thing they are to let them know politely. I actually used one of the quick responses when I let him know.

Your thoughts?

EDIT:

Ok so maybe I should have blocked him but I was annoyed so I sent a response so what does this oh so mature person do. Make another rude reply:

> Sender: NevereenuffofYou
> To: allwoman4you2
> Date: May 12, 2008 7:49 pm PST
>
> Stop eating so much!
>
> ---------------------------------------------------
> Sender: allwoman4you2
> To: NevereenuffofYou
> Date: May 12, 2008 7:29 pm PST
>
> Now I am positive I was right. A mature man would have accepted what was said without the need to be an ass. Grow up
>
> > ---------------------------------------------------
> > Sender: NevereenuffofYou
> > To: allwoman4you2
> > Date: May 12, 2008 8:25 am PST
> >
> > Gawd, you are right...I didn't realize you are like 600lbs....sorry to bother you


bound_sweetness
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Hun you were fine in your response. And yes he is an ass.

You have joined the club of mature women who 'get it' and are annoyed constantly by those who dont. It isnt all that exclusive of a club and the membership grows daily.

Sad but true.

allwoman4you2
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normally I would say no need for the edge of a blade but for some reason today that really got to me so if he does show up here, I will stand back and let you at him

And you and the other men in here do much to heal the wounds idiots like that inflict

THANK YOU

allwoman4you2
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quote bound_sweetness:
Hun you were fine in your response. And yes he is an ass. You have joined the club of mature women who 'get it' and are annoyed constantly by those who dont. It isnt all that exclusive of a club and the membership grows daily. Sad but true.
thank you hun. Normally I just close the message and move on, but his really hit me and considering how tired I am have to admit even upset me. I have blocked him but...

allwoman4you2
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I know what you are saying is right. It's just that no matter how much progress we make in healing from the wounds of the past every now and then (usually when we're tired) a stone thrown by an idiot gets past all the defenses that have been erected to prevent them from being able to wound us and hits its mark. And he managed to do just that. I know its probably because there's been so much going on I am just to tired and his comment caught me off guard.

And like I said, I can't call him a man, because that would be an insult to the men in here that would never dream of trying to wound a woman in such a low manner.

Dom4Teaching
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I think it was best that you sent a reply to him. However he should had stopped at that point; there was no need to be rude on his part. I for one like it when I get some type of reply back. I even state in my inital email that if you are not interested then a simple message of such will be appreciative. Everyone has the right to choose who they want to meet and it should be common courtesy to send some type of reply. I get disappointed when I do not get a "no thank you" email reply. I do not engage in a bickering contest; I take the not interested reply and move forward in life.

allwoman4you2
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quote Dom4Teaching:
I think it was best that you sent a reply to him. However he should had stopped at that point; there was no need to be rude on his part. I for one like it when I get some type of reply back. I even state in my inital email that if you are not interested then a simple message of such will be appreciative. Everyone has the right to choose who they want to meet and it should be common courtesy to send some type of reply. I get disappointed when I do not get a "no thank you" email reply. I do not engage in a bickering contest; I take the not interested reply and move forward in life.
And that was I had expected. I had expected he would accept that in the way it was intended and move on. Did not expect to discover that he was not even a man but an immature ...... not even sure what as I don't wish to insult other categories LOL

I have said it before and I will say it again. The men in here that respect the women here do much to heal the wounds that idiots like that one inflict upon us. Thank you!

allwoman4you2
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My gawd what some idiots won't do to inflict their views/opinions on others. What you had done to you is words worse than some faceless idiot taking that potshot at me. My heart goes out to you ~hugs~

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