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Poetry is Cheap. Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Posted:Apr 15, 2020 10:24 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2020 1:25 pm
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When words fail us.

Isn't how we are perceived based on our actions?
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Miss Manners (yeah, you can read that two ways) Rudeness online in the kink community.
Posted:Apr 12, 2020 8:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2020 1:25 pm
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I find myself shaking my head these days. A lot and often. Maybe I'm more exposed people online because I'm alone at home these days, and see the things I've missed as a slammed--the-wall busy person. Additionally, I'm raw, and I'm salty, and so with that in mind, please either change the page, or tread lightly through these words. Please.

I was raised be cordial people. respect their feelings, (almost) above all. Some call it Southern gentility. My parents called it having good manners.
In one case, in a chatroom that I enjoy visiting, a "Dom" showed total disregard for another's interest or fetish. Mr know it all was quick to put it down, to interject his "superior" thoughts, and to make an effort to make the other person feel "small." Fortunately, there were other people in the room who showed interest in the kink, and seeing that person equally. We are all here because we have "something." As was said in a posting I will always cherish, "One sky covers us all equally."

In another moment, one who has had (admittedly) personal issues, uses those as excuses to be rude. And hurtful. Excuses upon excuses. In the next breath, expects "please forgive my mistake" to exonerate, and "move on." So wrapped up in one's self, that common courtesies are tossed out the window, because "one is a special case." Says things and backtracks. Hurtful.

in a society in which we all have interests, likes, kinks, flaws, and misgivings about ourselves, wouldn't it be best to...especially in these times...be more considerate of others? If not considerate, maybe just mannerly?
"Please, thank you, be right back, I'll see you later" are all expressions of..."you're important to me." I work with people who do that in a more formal way in the work environment, but they as leaders, recognize the importance of "smoothing the way" for others.

One of my bids online told me this once. "Being heroic, by definition, is helping others." The others in the chat room that evening were heroic.
Be mannerly, please.
Be someone's hero.
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Miss Manners (yeah, you can read that two ways) Rudeness online in the kink community.
Posted:Apr 12, 2020 8:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 6:35 pm
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I find myself shaking my head these days. A lot and often. Maybe I'm more exposed people online because I'm alone at home these days, and see the things I've missed as a slammed--the-wall busy person. Additionally, I'm raw, and I'm salty, and so with that in mind, please either change the page, or tread lightly through these words. Please.

I was raised be cordial people. respect their feelings, (almost) above all. Some call it Southern gentility. My parents called it having good manners.
In one case, in a chatroom that I enjoy visiting, a "Dom" showed total disregard for another's interest or fetish. Mr know it all was quick to put it down, to interject his "superior" thoughts, and to make an effort to make the other person feel "small." Fortunately, there were other people in the room who showed interest in the kink, and seeing that person equally. We are all here because we have "something." As was said in a posting I will always cherish, "One sky covers us all equally."

In another moment, one who has had (admittedly) personal issues, uses those as excuses to be rude. And hurtful. Excuses upon excuses. In the next breath, expects "please forgive my mistake" to exonerate, and "move on." So wrapped up in one's self, that common courtesies are tossed out the window, because "one is a special case." Says things and backtracks. Hurtful.

in a society in which we all have interests, likes, kinks, flaws, and misgivings about ourselves, wouldn't it be best to...especially in these times...be more considerate of others? If not considerate, maybe just mannerly?
"Please, thank you, be right back, I'll see you later" are all expressions of..."you're important to me." I work with people who do that in a more formal way in the work environment, but they as leaders, recognize the importance of "smoothing the way" for others.

One of my bids online told me this once. "Being heroic, by definition, is helping others." The others in the chat room that evening were heroic.
Be mannerly, please.
Be someone's hero.
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Miss Manners (yeah, you can read that two ways) Rudeness online in the kink community.
Posted:Apr 12, 2020 6:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 22, 2020 3:45 pm
20130 Views

I find myself shaking my head these days. A lot and often. Maybe I'm more exposed people online because I'm alone at home these days, and see the things I've missed as a slammed--the-wall busy person. Additionally, I'm raw, and I'm salty, and so with that in mind, please either change the page, or tread lightly through these words. Please.

I was raised be cordial people. respect their feelings, (almost) above all. Some call it Southern gentility. My parents called it having good manners.
In one case, in a chatroom that I enjoy visiting, a "Dom" showed total disregard for another's interest or fetish. Mr know it all was quick to put it down, to interject his "superior" thoughts, and to make an effort to make the other person feel "small." Fortunately, there were other people in the room who showed interest in the kink, and seeing that person equally. We are all here because we have "something." As was said in a posting I will always cherish, "One sky covers us all equally."

In another moment, one who has had (admittedly) personal issues, uses those as excuses to be rude. And hurtful. Excuses upon excuses. In the next breath, expects "please forgive my mistake" to exonerate, and "move on." So wrapped up in one's self, that common courtesies are tossed out the window, because "one is a special case." Says things and backtracks. Hurtful.

in a society in which we all have interests, likes, kinks, flaws, and misgivings about ourselves, wouldn't it be best to...especially in these times...be more considerate of others? If not considerate, maybe just mannerly?
"Please, thank you, be right back, I'll see you later" are all expressions of..."you're important to me." I work with people who do that in a more formal way in the work environment, but they as leaders, recognize the importance of "smoothing the way" for others.

One of my bids online told me this once. "Being heroic, by definition, is helping others." The others in the chat room that evening were heroic.
Be mannerly, please.
Be someone's hero.
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Passion and kink
Posted:Sep 8, 2019 7:42 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2020 1:26 pm
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I'm sure some people would disagree, but the intersection of passion and kink is so rare! Finding someone who is not only kinky, but passionate seems to me to be the ultimate unicorn!

Loooove it, when it happens!
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Sometimes, I become so disappointed in people
Posted:May 16, 2019 7:19 pm
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2020 1:28 pm
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This isn't kink, or even about balloons. I generally like people, and I give many other leeway in their beliefs, interests and kinks, even if not into them.

So it's disappointing to see friends hurt or separated, by silly differences.

Not even sexual differences. Just different points of view.

Disappointing.

Tomorrow I'll blow up a balloon and forget all about this.
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New Years Eve Memories
Posted:Jan 28, 2018 8:07 am
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2023 2:57 pm
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This isn't a sexual post, really, just something to share

My favorite New Year's Eve comes from a party I attended several years ago. I Knew New Years Eve was "MY time - MY celebration" because of my special attraction I had to balloons.

I went to a bar close to home with some gf's, kind of a girls night out occasion. We wanted to dance and drink and flirt, so what better night? As always, I took a small purse, but filled it to bulging with balloons.

I was hoping to see balloon decorations, but when we arrived, I was astonished to discover that the bar had gone all out. There were balloons decorating literally everywhere, including uninflated balloons, in glass jars on the bar. For the first part of the night, they were totally ignored, which kind of made sense to me But as the hour approached, partygoers started blowing up and batting a few balloons around.

To my surprise, my two friends really got into the balloons, batting them and blowing more up, so I pulled out my mini stash and placed it on the table, chose one and started blowing. Since my balloons were bigger than the ones used by the bar, ther were many looks as we made them nice and taut, necking them, before batting them. My table got lots of attention, and lots of ladies from other tables asked for one to blow. It was so fun!

As midnight grew near, I realized how many people were batting balloons, and also how the excitement level increased; it seems the ladies make that happen - or is it just my perspective? In any case, I was carried along in the buildup, and made my balloons bigger and tighter - until the inevitable happened a few minutes before midnight -BANG! The entire bar cheered! Suddenly ladies from several areas started blowing to pop. (Guys - girls do it differently than men - it seems we blow, observe and enjoy the balloon, maybe tease each other, before eventually making it explode; guys seem to huff and puff to get to the bang -like it's a race. Maybe not looner guys - I don't know what you guys do, but guys in general.) so for a few minutes, there were pockets of ladies BTP'ing! It was amazing!

With just a minute to go, it seemed the air above the crowd was filled with balloons, most of the at least pear shaped. When the hour struck, the pops filled the air. My friends and I popped as many as we could get our hands on. They had no idea how excited I was (turned on sexually/looner-wise) but we all had a wonderful time!

It was, my best balloon related New Years Eve ever!
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Holiday season means parties -----
Posted:Nov 20, 2017 7:52 pm
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2020 1:28 pm
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--- and that means more balloons! And Bub in perpetual state of nervous horniness!

I love seeing balloon decorations, even if I can't get to them. But there's always the possibility that some will be handled and popped. Or that I might play with some. Or see someone playing!

Oh the anticipation!
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Finding my way
Posted:Jun 2, 2017 5:02 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2018 3:07 pm
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In spite of my unusual kink, I've found myself more engrossed in the discovery of the same sex. As much as I have loved cock, I love my time with my girlfriends much more. From the first furtive touches as I "thought" I was learning to make out with boys in my - -very-- awkward years to the moment that my soon-to-be-first- girlfriend teased me with a balloon, I've always loved the females of our species.

I caught myself staring at a girls bewbs early on, and I still do. I found that girl kisses were - and are more soft and sensual and passionate than any male I've encountered.

At the same time, I discovered that I like being in control outright, or sharing playtime, but I have never - nor do I want to - be submissive. And when I've acted upon my urges...for both play time and balloon time,,,I've always been in control. I love sharing my kinks and my sexuality with my partners. Not everyone gets it, but then again, not everyone would.

I've been asked if I am a Domme, and I don't really believe that moniker fits, but I always describe myself (and I'm sure many others would) as a top...a controlling personality who knows what she likes.
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