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Happiness
Posted:Mar 10, 2017 5:26 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2017 7:50 am
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What is happiness?

(Warning! This blogpost contains emotions and cultural referencces.)

As a conscious person my belief is that happiness is nothing but the moment and living the moment.

EXPERIENCING HAPPINESS WITH SOMEONE: when you are really close to someone, and you say the same words together, when there is the feeling nothing matters only the other one for each other.

Like in True romance (1993, directed by Tony Scott) PatriciaArquett keep saying ’you’re so cool’ in the final scene of the movie.

Happiness means that you make me so happy, I would jump to the deep, hand in hand. Like Thelma and Louise (1991, directed by Ridley Scott).

EXPERIENCING HAPPINESS ALONE: when you are in full harmony with yourself, in peace with all your possibilites and limits. I do know, life is series of moments, and I am living, experiencing this second with all the peace and harmony, knowing that the world around me is nothing but a dream.

As Ghostdog told it (1999, directed by Jim Jarmusch)

„It is a good viewpoint to see a world as a dream. When you have something like a nightmare, you will wake up and tell yourself it was only a dream. It is said that the world we live in is not a bit different from this.”

I lost my (I thought then one and only) love 5 yrs ago. Since then I have been single.

Why?
Because my heart was not open for a longer period and I didn’t want to trick anyone.
But I had numerous BDSM experiences in the past 5 yrs.

I believe I have a whole personality, I don’t need my ’other half’. I want another whole personality, to share my moments I described above.

Why do I want someone? Why is it so hard to find love?

My tragedy is myself. I am a pansexual and sapiosexual, hopelessly romantic, sadistic lifestyle dominant woman, tied by BDSM for a life.
I want a special person in my life. Especially submissive, but I don’t care if he/she will be a fetishist, or switch if he/she is my little slave for my life. I want him/her to find it natural that he/she kneels down when he/she is taking off my shoes, opens the door of the car for me, licks my toes, enjoys my slaps, prepares a hot bath for me…I want him/her to understand and wish all my sexual wishes, to understand that a dominant has feelings too. He/she has to know and recognize that I am a dominant but sensitive woman who will listen to him/her, that we can share every thoughts. Because sharing makes us real partners in life, not only lovers but friends too.

I want to feel this, when he/she is not with me: (Nick Cave’s Into my arms, Nick Cave’s Breathless).

I want to feel myself when I kiss him/her (Kiss by Philipp Glass)

And I want to watch together my favorite oper (Swan lake) on our anniversary.
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Thank you for the music :)
Posted:Mar 3, 2017 5:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2017 1:58 am
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I can not imagine my life without music. As I write texts at work, I am lucky enough to listen to music meanwhile.

Music helps you if you are sad,
raises your joy when you are happy,
stimulates your body and soul when you are in a kinky-sensual mood...

Music is for everyone and every time.
From your embrional age to your funeral.

I know, these are cliches. But for your mental health, do the following every day:
1. Listen to some music you really like.
2. Listen to some classical music. It helps you relax or focus, depends on the piece.
3. Stroke an animal.

I wish you a wonderful weekend with the music of the great Bach performed by the greatest pianist on the world, Glenn Gould.
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Suggestions
Posted:Mar 1, 2017 6:29 am
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2017 6:50 am
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… how to get to know someone, to find a lover/sexpartner online and to raise the number of your profile visitors

WARNING! SARCASM DANGER!

1, make pictures about your private parts. The most angle the better. Upload them so everybody can see them. They are the eyecandy of the site and it helps the digestion of decent visitors. (Extra points for people who use their genitals as their profile picture. You all are special little snowflakes. Each and every hair on and around your genitals.)


2, praise yourself and your abilities at least in 3 blog posts/day. Write down that you are a fucking tough dominant person. (you can praise yourself in comment as well in other person’s blog posts)

3, write as much cliche as you can in your blog posts. Intermediate level: write one cliche post per hour, delete them in every 3 hours. Write personal remarks at least for one person per blog post per day.

4, lie about yourself on your profile (intermediate level: on your profileS). The bigger is the lie, the more possible is the success. House with pool, cool job, pretty blondies around? What else?
Schizophreniacs, persons with great memory have the goods on them- so they can keep their lies longer and can lie to everybody or to a special person for longer period. (For beginners making notes about lies are suggested, especially in case of having more profiles.)

5, at least every 3rd month delete your profile, make a new one with another nickname (do not mention your previous nickname etc). maybe this time you will manage to find someone.

6, judge everybody, based on as little information as you can.

7, do not forget: you ALL are very special little snowflakes

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What a woman wants...
Posted:Feb 27, 2017 4:54 am
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2017 2:49 am
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It is clearly stated on my profile that I want a longterm FLR (female led relationship).
To create a relationship it is not enough to have the same kinks (moreover I do believe that a real submissive person has one and only wish: to fulfill all wishes of his mistress), but to get to know each others' personalities.
I think we all are here for the same reason: to find something. Something precious, something real.. either a BDSM sex or a longterm relationship you can't do it fast and without knowing each other.
I met lots of fakes here. Lots of people who misunderstood my (very clear) profile. Lots of liars. Lots of people who didnt take the time to get to know me...


I wish all of you much more patience and an open mind.


Patience to be able to listen to the other one.
Open mind to understand the other one.

Although I had lots of bad experiences, I never gave up and never will to find the right submissive person who were made for me.
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