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MissAnn5 57F  
476 posts
3/20/2017 4:16 pm
Dating and Screening ... Pain !!!


To Get Me Out Of My Slump ... I joined a dating site,,, vanilla dating site... I had a profile there but hid it .. but I think it's time...( to face the aggravation..lol)

It's exhausting reading all the emails .... and most don't give you any info ... so it's back and forth ... I say to myself " Why Do I Even Bother telling you that I smoke ? Why Do I bother Saying Please be over 50 and Mature ? Why would I specifically say I use K..K... to communicate ... I do not give out my number .... don't demand it ... dummy .. You ain't my Dom Yet ...lol

One Guy got very insulting ..... I Hate This ... I try to be patient ... but some try my patience ! They get nasty when you ask if they're married .... they get nasty when you won't send more pics .... Some won't even send a face pic ... I want to see a face to picture who I'm talking to ... not the cock pic...

Sure ... I don't wanna hook up with this type anyway .. but damn.... this is probably why some women ' pretend ' to be Miss Goody 2 Shoes....

I'm not perfect ... I have flaws and issues ... and a Stubborn Bitch when I feel wronged ... LOL..... I am a Taurus ... for real...

I Just want a Decent Man that is Dominant , Humorous , and Trusting .... Needle in a Hay Stack ... Right ? I wanna explore ... damn it ...


louike 46M
106 posts
3/21/2017 8:51 am

Still there are truthful people here , don't forget that ! And , some of them are Taurus aswel !


likesmatureones 48M  
1308 posts
3/21/2017 4:21 am

perhaps the site has a filter you could use...

no pic? no contact
dic pic goes into the spam folder for a later time/shared between women for a good laugh
under a certain age? goes to a website dedicated to disney princesses ( OMG the horror!)

The pretend doms?.. perhaps can be sent to an educational site on bdsm...or a bad 80s bdsm porno.. knowing those guys they probably would pay attention to the porno

guys under a certain height would be sent to the stretching room....yeah stole that from willy wonka...what? you knew he had to be kinky as all fuck


likesmatureones 48M  
1308 posts
3/21/2017 4:13 am

well the way I see it most guys on dating sites are living vicariously.. they are married and this is their way of letting off a lil sexual steam. So they play those highschool sorta bs games. They shot cock shots etc and have no intention of ever getting together

The problem though is it gives the rest of the single guys a bad name... I literally had to jump through so many hoops for women on dating sites that I basically gave up trying ( both on women and dating sites). ( and yes it is even worse when the woman is single and has a kid)
.And yeah I'm the type of nice guy that would date a woman with a kid...which is pretty rare..just saying.

it's like women have run into so many bozos that a real single guy has to run through the meat grinder to even get a date with them. You have to prove that your worthy and then prove it again and again..
Because there is always that secret fear in the back of women's heads that says this guy is full of bs.

So after a while the single guy also stops trying...


alt5250 52M
758 posts
3/20/2017 7:00 pm

Deep breathe... yes too many fakes out there but some decent guys.. wishing you luck with that.


MissAnn5 57F  
6944 posts
3/20/2017 6:18 pm

    Quoting CowboyRam:
    If they are not willing to correspond with on the dating sites email system they are most likely fake. They like to move you away as fast as they can, before they get booted.

    I have met three women through Craigslist about a year and half ago, but now the chance of meeting someone there slim, it has been overtaken by fakes, and scammers. I have noticed that there seems to be a common denominator with them. They all use gmail, and they try to get you to sign up on a fake site.
Oh... Thank You for that info ... I'm not even opening those emails anymore ... there's way too many .... time wasted....


CowboyRam 52M
3006 posts
3/20/2017 5:51 pm

If they are not willing to correspond with on the dating sites email system they are most likely fake. They like to move you away as fast as they can, before they get booted.

I have met three women through Craigslist about a year and half ago, but now the chance of meeting someone there slim, it has been overtaken by fakes, and scammers. I have noticed that there seems to be a common denominator with them. They all use gmail, and they try to get you to sign up on a fake site.

An ounce of doing is worth a pound of talk

Cowboy Up


MissAnn5 57F  
6944 posts
3/20/2017 4:56 pm

    Quoting lastguymn:
    CL is the worst. There is something inherently wrong with looking for love on a site that primarily serves as an outlet for people to get rid of their old, ratty sofa.
LOL.... Too funny ... I was thinking the same thing ... but It's very popular ...


lastguymn 49M
7754 posts
3/20/2017 4:49 pm

CL is the worst. There is something inherently wrong with looking for love on a site that primarily serves as an outlet for people to get rid of their old, ratty sofa.

~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


MissAnn5 57F  
6944 posts
3/20/2017 4:19 pm

And CL resulted in Hundreds of Emails ... who can take all that pressure ..lol...It's hard to keep track on the maybes ..



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