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Why Should I Choose You
張貼於:2020年 12月 7日 8:10 pm
最近編輯過:2022年 3月 30日 9:14 pm
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When subs looking for a dom ask why I the should choose you as their dom. My reply is why should I choose you as a sub. Please remember that a D/S relationship is a way street just like any relationship. It takes 2 and it must be mutual. Sub well I've been burned before, which I reply that we all have been burned before don't judge based on your past issues with trying finding a dom because you went with the would be instead of the real. Sex is not the end all be all. If I wanted get laid I can get laid i don't have pretend be something I'm not get laid. If a person has pretend get laid then it speaks a lot of their character. Too many good people leave the community because of people pretending to be something they are not. This community is smaller then you think and people talk, so if you're one of those who think your cleaver by pretending to be a dom so you can fuck someone, chance are people will know. I truly enjoy introducing people to kink and pretending to be something I'm not, and would ruin the trust and a good reputation that I've spent a better part of my life building because I know that people in the community tal
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Unowned Submissive’s
張貼於:2018年 2月 20日 4:16 pm
最近編輯過:2022年 3月 30日 9:14 pm
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Came across this in Tumblr thought I would share this.

Unowned Submissive’s

Lets talk about the submissives who were owned and have been recently released from their most recent relationships with their Dominant. Perhaps it was a relationship that had its good points as well as bad, like most relationships had a growing sense of love, but with many differences to difficult to resolve. The struggles with these submissives was/is who they are outside of the “ownership” that they had grown accustomed to?



Every submissive has a time where they will be unowned, whether it is new or where they have been released by mutual agreement or by default. I hear stories of unowned submissives who struggle to identify themselves without the tug of the Dominant. They allow themselves to be filled with self doubt, identity crisis, and a drop from the lack of leadership that a Dominant provides.

It is important to remember the submissive psyche that we all carry. The traits and the strengths that make up the submissive core. The core of the submissive is a primal one. It has everything to do with your own natural and nurtured self. You are valued by your attributes, you are seen and admired.

When you are not in a relationship these attributes do NOT go away. The beauty remains, and one day someone will walk into the room and all will become evident. As we move through life we never know what will happen. Hearts and minds change, conflicts arise, sickness comes. The fact is every D/s relationship has an end on earth. There will always be a Dominant without a submissive and the submissive without the Dominant.

The unowned submissive must be able to look in the mirror and say, I am beautiful, I am strong, I am a submissive. Every day is a day to learn, a day to do more, a day to grow in their submission. They should not rush or worry about finding “the one”.

WE OFTEN FIND WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR WHEN WE STOP LOOKING.

DON’T be afraid to be unowned!!!
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Training
張貼於:2018年 1月 22日 6:48 pm
最近編輯過:2022年 3月 30日 9:14 pm
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Recently had a husband half of couple ask me if I did Training, to which I replied not anymore. The husband left it at that. The wife on the other hand who had received an introduction level rope bondage early, asked me why I no longer trained people.

The answer is something that dawned on me almost a year ago, while with someone I meet who wanted their limits pushed. This person had a Dom who lived far away and was married. The Dom told her his wife knew what he did on his trips out of town, however she couldn’t contact him at home the sub said her Dom’s wife would be angry at him and he would be angry at her. The more she revealed the more less it sounds like this Doms wife knew what he was doing. When he came to town it always sounds like work and booty call, or him taking picture of her with other men. This I told her sounds like a man cheating on he’s wife. However she didn’t care. That was something I want no affiliation with. But as her friend I told her it will be heart break somewhere down the road. And I ended it. I told her if this Dom is so great then he needs to invest in her training himself, regardless of how far away he lives. She still says I fired her to this day, but can’t fire a sub that was never yours to begin with can you?

That was when I realized to stop investing my time and energy into improving other Doms subs. I’ve seen and her of D/S relationship long distance. However if a sub must resort to find a way to have their limits push by the aid of someone else then that to me is a failing relationship.

Many Subs it seems to me who choose long distance/online D/S relationship do so cause it gives them a sense of safety. They can call it quits when things seem to intense, however the intensity is what can push a sub beyond their limits to make the impossible possible.

I have to problems helping or showing Doms how to improve their skills when I have the time to help them be able to push their subs to their limits and beyond. However if I’m going to invest the time and energy into training and improving of a sub, then I want it to be my sub
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