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My vote is for safe fantasy.......no attachments, no responsibilities
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To me, on line play is a fantasy. It has no connections to reality. It is entertainment or just plain old masturbation fodder. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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For me online is an extension of the real thing... it isn't a badly woven fable or fantasy, but a direct connection via cam/mic and following thru with actions/activities. That said... ain't nothing like the real thing! .-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-. "I hate mankind, for I think myself one of the best of them, and I know how bad I am." - Joseph Baretti   
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Online play is safe fantasy that can create real emotions and connections, but in the end it is fake unless it can be reinforced by play in person.
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In the past for me it has been a means of exploring mutual desires, seeking a connection that may or may not exist. On occasion it has been a safe way of exploring areas that I would never dream of going in real life, or even a way of making the impossible possible. More recently it has become a perfect way of stoking the fires of desire. An wonderful extension of real life. 
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1/10/2018 1:32 am |
In my optics, modern technology is quite excellent as a complement to IRL experience, but can not stand alone. Exercise IRL adds so many more shades that can not be supplied by electronic means, but many get huge benefits through online experience.
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1/10/2018 1:47 am |
As r/l is a difficult option for me in my current circumstances, only is an excellent extension of live BDSM, as long as Y/you find the right partner. That takes the same amount of care and effort as finding a r/l partner. If Y/you can mange that, then online can be quite satisfying.
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When it is about fantasy? i dont need an other person on the other side of the screen. I am able to handle that on my own, in the privacy of my own bedroom, not in front of a screen?! When it is used before meeting eachother again, to set the tone... well that is oké with me. But only online fantasy exchange? Wont work. I need to feel, smell, watch him in real life. Feel the energy between us. Also, you are very vulnerable for black mailing, bullying from that online person.. You make your own safety very doubtfull. When in a longterm relation? That might be something different, because you two know each other. Know his adress, his workplace, his family maybe? Otherwise, that orgasm is not worthy the danger you put yourself in.
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As a precursor to a real meeting, I can imagine its value, but like cybersex per se, what's the point? Very few people have the skills to write well enough for it to be captiating (pardon the pun). I'm not a fan of porn much and I can't see the point of cam, either (particularly with the real danger of being blackmailed) - mais chaqu' un a son gout, at they say.
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Interesting discussion. I particular find it very exciting to play online and to fulfill the other part and/or my fantasy.
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1/28/2018 7:01 am |
It's a fun way to play with people that live too far away to meet.
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