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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
11/17/2018 6:37 am
Your into WHAT😲😲😲


My question of the day is...
Has there ever been something your into that totally freaked the other person out..or vice versa.
Probably worse..do you have a problem telling a new person about this interest.

Now i will preface this by saying i am not the most advanced nor experienced person here.
But ive done some stuff that i enjoyed that i might be hestitant to ask of another.

For example my ex joined this local group that engaged in alot of various niches of lifestyle play.

One of them being puppy play.. im big on male objectification and really wanted to explore this on a deeper level. We did this a few times at her place and i thought it was where i belonged. She enjoyed it and so did i
But then we were on rocky grounds already...so yeah we never did it publically at the group. We broke up...

Im not shy to broach the topic with someone new.
But its like you kinda get this pregnant pause..like they get it..but dont get it.
So its like you almost just want to find someone already into it. Its kinda hard to explain why you like this desire to someone.

Im not saying everyone has to be into everything you are...but still.

likesmatureones 55M

11/17/2018 7:04 am

Id say the only thing that a woman was into that freaked me out was the use of needles...she enjoyed using them on a sub.

I admit that i can be pushy and probably rushed the idea of male chastity on my ex.. so in essence that probably stressed her out.


obe1canobeyou 63M

11/17/2018 9:21 am

running thru for some points, thanks,


TheFirmhand_UK 62M
17 posts
11/17/2018 1:15 pm

You should never feel like you have to justify your kinks, as long as they don't harm anyone else - i.e. you don't have their genuine consent.


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
11/18/2018 3:06 am

I alienated a few women by suggesting I'd like them to spank me

And I've met a few people utterly disgusted by the concept of bondage

It's safer not to mention my kinks unless the other person takes the first step, but there are more or less subtle ways to test their inclinations. Like the time I playfully held a woman's wrists together behind her back and she melted in my arms


CawintShard 68M

11/25/2018 6:04 am

As long as it is safe, all questions, raised eyebrows, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera need no justification. Enjoy.



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