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likesmatureones 55M
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3/14/2017 4:48 am
What are your thought on Domestic Discipline folks?


I know I know..like omg I know Leo is actually posting a lifestyle topic...is he feeling okay?

I think people get the wrong impression about those into Domestic discipline. They usually are stereotyped online as either

A: the religious right...like omg their brand of kink is Biblical based.. praise be Jesus ( no homo)...
B: Very Mom and Pops...where 50 yr old dad is spanking mom or vice versa..yet they will go to their graves denying that they are kinky/try to separate their kink from bdsm.

And I wondered if you know anyone that is just into DD and does it work for them.

I'm wonder because leo being..well leo goes on alot of other websites and is into alot of things...

If you've been following along you know that I'm into dudes (and wonderful older bbw women ( yeah I have no use for 20 yr old alt bots with fake boobs alt.com)

So I am on this all male spanking site ( and the irony here is it isn't a "gay" site..there are straight guys on here who just want to spank/be spanked by other men without any sex involved...so you get gay men/bi men/curious and yep straight men on there

...I'm generally attracted to older men in general ( no not like omg I'm 20 and he's 60..more like I'm 48 and he is 55 or 65...but yeah older.
Sooo yeah.. this seems like a cool site to me...older men spanking a guy's ass/he likes being in charge...right up my alley.

So I see "spanking" as bdsm...I just naturally assume if a guy is into this then he obviously must be into other lifestyle stuff...so very cool.

and yeah there are some nice older local men on here

I have to preface this by saying Kansas city isn't new york....gay bdsm groups and clubs aren't out in the open as you'd think..lol....they don't advertise!....so meeting a gay man into kink is sorta like finding a unicorn at times... you know they exist.. just kinda takes some effort.

But I guess I'm like the clueless guy that walks into the pot luck with a bowl full of jello and thinks it is a get together to meet and greet the neighbors...and it turns out to be a swinger's party.

In this case these "spankers" are basically DD people.. replace mom and pops with "Daddy" and "boy" in the gay world and you pretty much have the same situation.
They like discipline/they like control...
Yet they differ from lifestyle people
and it takes a lil bit to mentally process it..

So I guess it is sorta like dealing with niche people...stay on topic and they are interested..start talking about bondage or other lifestyle topics and they sorta just fade away from the conversation.

Now don't get me wrong I've never been a "step and fetch" lifestyle orientated.sub..I've never wanted a tough and gruff Dominant...hell especially a male one...

So having a "Daddy" instead of a DOM could actually be good for someone like me.
I like the "softer side of sears"..

I'm just curious if a lifestyle person can actually settle for just DD....Do you actually know anyone that is DD?

likesmatureones 55M

3/14/2017 4:49 am


likesmatureones 55M

3/14/2017 5:57 pm

oh Miss Ann I didn't mean to imply there is no sex..I said that yes on that website you do have plain straight guys ( no sex/no kiss/no contact) that just enjoy spanking male ass. They actually view the sub as a cub/younger brother/someone to mentor etc.

But you also have bis and gay men on that site that do want to date/have sex/want a relationship.

My point was all they want to do is basically spank and control.. there is no real love for alot of the other lifestyle kinks like bondage etc



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