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rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/31/2018 12:02 am

Without first a mental connection, liking him, as a person, digging his way of thinking, expres himself, if he can make me laugh...
If we share more than the oxygen in the air...?

He can be the best looking guy of the block= not interested

So, alas, i cant vote, because mental attraction is not on your list..

Oh, and in general i have an eye for the so called 'ugly' guys....
Just not that interested in the standard/accepted "beauty thing"....

beautiful people.. can be soo full of themselfs, tiresome.
beautiful people in general dont have to *do* anything or be a real genuine person....
boring! empty.


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
7/31/2018 4:39 am

I must admit, I have a type. He's funny and taller than me and has to have nice hands ( I have a thing for hands). That's about it.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


MyLoveandPet 55M/48F
10164 posts
7/31/2018 5:11 am

Well I've had my Pet for 20 years but yes there was a physical attraction, I have a type, tall, dark hair, blue eyes, nice smile. However, in my search for a secondary submissive physical attraction was not really a factor as I was looking for a service oriented type that I had no plans to have sex with.

When I had gold/silver membership I answered all messages, but currently I'm "standard" with no mail privileges so I have 4 messages I cannot even read let alone respond to.

ML.

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Gowron 69M
3089 posts
7/31/2018 5:34 am

Physical attraction may speed things but offers no guarantee of a lasting connection. You may find a beautiful person is empty inside. Or disgusting.

When looks are not your forte, you may have to wait till someone gets to know you better and feels attracted by your other qualities.


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
7/31/2018 6:27 am

Looks Matter To A Certain Degree BUT Attitude Is More Important ... TIP For Some Of You Guys With Godawful Ugly Looking Dicks- Show Your FACE


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
7/31/2018 6:41 am

it is interesting the hate you get heaped upon yourself for simply being an attractive person who happens to have symmetrical features and a physically appealing shape. Men and women seem to both admire you for your attractiveness and want to be associated with you, and put on a pedestal, you are forgiven very easily for making errors, you tend to be seen as so good and the like, but then by the same token, you are also seen as being lazy, not doing much, vain, manipulative, successful, not for your talent, but only due to your looks, men may tend to be jealous and possessive, women think you are after their man. not an easy thing.

i got tired of it. kinda went to the unhealthy realm...need to get back to being slim and healthy. maybe this time around, i will be stronger, and not so passive and sweet.

okay, i digress, i just get tired of hearing people disparaging the attractive types..yeah, some of them are those things, but i have also found some of least attractive men to be most critical and mean when it comes to women's looks.

i think physical attraction plays a role. in general, i prefer light coloured eyes, and seemed to have dated blondes more often than other hair and eye colours, however, not important. I find a variety of body types attractive and looks, but something important is an energy about the person. I just know when i feel it. I have been accused at times of dating below my looks (in past), and i felt offended by that. I like what i like, and the man was sexy and appealing to me.

I do not find men who have the facial structure that suggests a low iq to be attractive. i am not attracted to petite men.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


verytallsub 43M
375 posts
7/31/2018 8:35 am

In most cases the dominatrix is exceptionally beautiful, while the subs they use tend to be.....less beautiful.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/31/2018 2:16 pm

i voted numero 5 , by the way! 😉


JerseyDevil316 53M
18 posts
7/31/2018 6:48 pm

Can't lie. Looks play into it but I've seen "10"s that have nothing else inside. Looks are a start but you've got to have something else going on.


olderdaddyforyou 68M

8/1/2018 3:56 am

The first thing seen on here is a pic...or no pic. While no pic doesn't mean they are hideous, there are many reasons for not wanting to be seen on a site such as this, I tend to be drawn to profiles with attractive face pics. That being said, a great profile can turn 'meh' into 'wow'. And ladies with pussy pics as your main profile pic...it's about the same turn off to me as is the men with dick pics to women. We know what they look like. I will be seeing your face more than that part of you.

Just my opinion of course


olderdaddyforyou 68M

8/1/2018 2:02 pm

"But no matter the personality I am just not physically turned on by bald men or guys with beards, really grosses me out actually. "

Wow...I'll take that personally


obeyonecanobe 62M

8/3/2018 8:00 am

great survey, enjoy time reading all


smartsexyhard 39M

8/5/2018 3:22 pm

Intelligence is just as sexy...


Bruce90230 59M

8/12/2018 6:49 pm

I saw this article in the LA Times and it made me think of this post. http://www.latimes.com/ct-online-dating-out-of-league-20180808-story.html

People can decide for themselves whether they believe the conclusions of the study would apply to Alt. My suspicion is that if people are being honest with themselves and others, the conclusion probably still holds true for a large segment of the Alt community. I know it does for me. It's what drew me to Kat initially, after all!


bullsadist 65M  
43 posts
1/14/2019 12:17 pm

My main criteria is a sexual match. That said, yes, looks certainly play a part. Our profiles are basically billboards advertising who we are and what we look like. Nice visuals enhance your message and tend to get more people to view your profile. I think that is a good thing. I don't have a picture of myself up now because I'm not ready to start a relationship. When I put my picture up, it will be because I think it's time. When that happens, of course, looks will matter, but it's not my first priority.



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