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IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
6/1/2018 9:15 am

I'm a sick motherfucker.

I remember now.


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
6/1/2018 10:27 am

Invariably, the only spontaneous contact from "women" is from scammers seeking to part you from your money.


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
6/1/2018 11:53 am

I think it should be either or.......if I feel i want to meet someone I just send a message. Quite often, I send a message to compliment a photo or profile.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
6/1/2018 1:10 pm

i sometimes send a wink, or comment/compliment on this mans blog/story.
if he does not pick up on that... or he has no interest...?
fair with me..

It should not matter, although I am a bit old fashioned, i think the man should show his interest in me, make the first move.....

Most profiles/photos i have been reading dont entice me to contact, at all.


InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
6/1/2018 3:33 pm

If one is interested, they should send a note of introduction, comment on their profile, blog, etc... something other than a bland *hi* or some rendition of their want list. Really, if you don't ask, you'll never receive. Never hurts to drop a respectful note ~ regardless of your gender or side of the slash.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


slaaf85_91 61M
447 posts
6/2/2018 1:05 am

I wonder if and how some read any profiles.

My profile is very explicit not only displaying my naked body in detail, but also describing my sexual lifestyle revealing all my deviant sexual details. Moreover I broadcast posing naked head to feet, showing live any details anyone asks for, answering direct questions. No way to give myself more naked and those who decide they want to meet me in person feel already familiar the first moment they meet me live. Still I get requests from mainly women, telling me I am a serious and decent man they are looking for...

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...


Master_Lance_DK

6/2/2018 2:13 am

a. I look loads of profiles but rarely take the first step.

b. In my profile, I have explained what I am asking for, and in the profile that those who wish it are welcome and must take the first step.

c. Virtually all females are exposed to a storm of inquiries.
By far most, completely irrelevant, compared to what is requested.
All requests are therefore subject to a very serious sorting, and most are sorted out on a reasonable basis.

As a starting point, I rarely take the first step but expect to be found by those who want it I offer and that they then contact me.


Master_Lance_DK

6/2/2018 2:17 am

Addition to c.
Anyone who has not, in their profile, described what they are looking for, a long way to go is the fault of irrelevant inquiries.


boringbloke60 63M

6/4/2018 2:47 pm

if the other person hasn't seen you the you should make contact, that's if you want too.


balborius 59M
19 posts
6/6/2018 8:00 am

    Quoting Raven_GB:
    Invariably, the only spontaneous contact from "women" is from scammers seeking to part you from your money.
Aint that the truth. So much so that if a real one contacts, you 3rd degree em so hard they run away muttering.....


1uncommondom 77M

6/6/2018 8:26 am

While my view is skewed old school.
I agree with everyone that who initiates contact
isn't carved in stone.
Fakes are just part of the internet BS.


PainLoveBeast 62M
43 posts
6/6/2018 3:03 pm

Anyone interested in someone should make some initial move.
Anything that is remotely meaninful, at least.


DancingDom 74M
22474 posts
6/17/2018 3:49 pm

If someone contacts me first. So be it, If I contact them first, so be it. In this day and age I don't think it matters much. If you connect regardless when, where, when and who contacts who first, if you match up and have a connecting. That is wonderful.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Plz2BNuPeg 71M

6/28/2018 7:04 am

Agree with those who believe it doesn't matter, but should be the person who is interested. I have had a couple of folks contact me and I've contacted a couple of women. That said, there's a certain surrealism to this media. Anyone can be anything they want online. Reality may be quite different, but take a chance. All that can be lost is some time.


submanbxl 68M

7/1/2018 1:22 am

i don't mind who contacts whom first. Surely the point of a site like this si to explore, meet P/people and discover new things. i don't get T/those who don't chat in the chatrooms, haven't T/they read what's on the tin?


IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
7/7/2018 3:17 pm

10 "Agree" votes.

Yay me...

I remember now.


ShirtTieGuy 46M

7/13/2018 5:24 pm

If you like the persons profile or are intrigued then just make a move and get on with it, regardless of dom/sub/switch status on both sides.

Looking for my ShirtTieGal. I like smart, stiff, high collar shirts & ties + a bit of bondage/bdsm.


ShirtTieGuy 46M

7/16/2018 12:49 am

I don't have a subscription account so (a) I can't see the profile, and (b) I can't make any first moves.

There are so many fake profiles/accounts and scammers on here, and I have not been able to trial the site properly due to account restrictions, so I don't see much incentive to pay a subscription. Unless anyone can persuade me otherwise?

Looking for my ShirtTieGal. I like smart, stiff, high collar shirts & ties + a bit of bondage/bdsm.


cum2daddy20000 62M
569 posts
9/15/2019 10:48 am

I voted dome



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