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boringbloke60 63M

1/31/2019 11:43 am

There are two times of pain, horrible pain, that is to say the pain you experience following an accident or medical condition etc, and then there is erotic pain, the sir of pleasurable pain that tends to mask the horrible pain giving pleasure to the recipient and no doubt to the person administering the erotic pain.


Mountainchild 72M
126 posts
1/31/2019 12:24 pm

and where is sensory overload on the continuum.


charlesmartel0 59M

1/31/2019 1:14 pm

There's the endorphin stimulation of pain in isolation, then there's the contrast of pleasure with pain, using the pain to punctuate some ongoing pleasure, that makes the pleasure more intense by comparison. These may be related.


looking4fat 72T

2/1/2019 3:30 am

i am not really into pain. A light open hand swat or two, and a little ball slapping are both enjoyable play practices. But the "hard stuff" is not for me.

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
2/1/2019 4:52 am

    Quoting looking4fat:
    i am not really into pain. A light open hand swat or two, and a little ball slapping are both enjoyable play practices. But the "hard stuff" is not for me.
I agree. Those will humiliate you, show you your place, could be pleasurable - but real pain is not my thing.


Motophoto11 60M
7 posts
2/1/2019 6:00 am

It depends on the sub before me. What is going to make her get where I want her head to go. Pain is a relative term, I am a sadist, however, if the sub is brand new it will take time to train her to equate pain and pleasure. It will take time for her to learn and crave certain types of impact toys and build up to them.
Pain is a kink for me, seeing how far I can get her to go and how deep that rabbit hole for her is makes me excited. It takes a while to build up even for a thuddy flogger, spanking, violet wands, and so on and so on and so on... tolerances can be pushed back and a sub can learn to endor and crave more as their body gets new levels of needs.


Just_Kitten 45F  
41 posts
2/3/2019 12:33 pm

My orgasm is never as intense as when the pain is at 11.


LuvSpanky 42F

2/13/2019 9:59 am

It plays a part. It's the host that introduced me to explore BDSM.



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