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Switch4MrRight1 57F
0 posts
5/9/2018 4:40 am
How long have you been here, and is it worth it?

Have you been here a long or short time and do you feel it’s worth it?
Less than 6 months
1 year or so
A couple years
5 years or so
5-10 years
10 years or more


stanjohnson57 62M
25 posts
5/22/2018 9:13 am

i think so yes , some like minded people , great fantasies to look at


RapeMasterDP 61M
13 posts
5/20/2018 12:10 pm

Since 2004, on and off. Sometimes with a premium membership, but currently, just an ordinary... I wont pay at the moment, while the site is overpopulated by idiots, wannabees and scammers.

I guess I must see something positive about it... Im still here after all....


hampshirepuppy 55M

5/18/2018 1:20 pm

I have gained a pen pal from here who I do really enjoy corresponding with but other than that time wasters and scammers seem to be the order of the day.
Having said that as a 49 y\o male sub it would be difficult on any site to get the real time meets I crave.


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
5/17/2018 4:27 pm

Well, I wouldn't pay for it!


jfinch0922 41M

5/15/2018 7:12 pm

Account is 2 years but I only started using it recently. A lot of the interesting profiles/groups haven't shown activity in years. And even though there is nothing in my area on here, I am able to connect with like minded people when I was unable to before. Hopefully it gets better, but it is still worth it to me.


johnfire61 46M
91 posts
5/13/2018 4:30 pm

Been on here since around 2004, and like others, it isn't near as good as it used to be. I have had a couple relationships from here. Met many wonderful people when the chatrooms were hopping, to include being able to meet most of them at a club.

Way too many bots and scammers today, but not too many places I know of to meet like minded people. Not sure how most of the blogs count people, but I know mine shows views but rarely comments. Alot of that type of stuff has gotten quirky anymore. Also the cost has soared here too.

Always best of luck to everyone!!


Master_Lance_DK

5/13/2018 10:26 am

Then there are the pedophiles - hunters.


Contepaitro 62M

5/13/2018 9:28 am

I've been here on and off since 2015. I agree with the previous poster. Sometimes it gets tedious and I drift away. On the other hand it has afforded me the opportunity to meet some interesting, like minded people.


Master_Lance_DK

5/13/2018 6:20 am

Adding to - Then there are all the thieves.

Most often, those looking to lure you on other sites, from which they can put "Trojan horses" or similar on your PC. (Programs that express one, but contain the ability to put an application on your PC with which they can get access to all content, and also your codes when you log in to sensitive places like your bank.)

You will not notice it until it's too late unless you have a really good and updated protection program.

Therefore - Never let other sites you do not know where you do not know if they are safe.


Master_Lance_DK

5/13/2018 6:01 am

Hoof. Forgot just a few categories.

All the cute little ones who are exploring their sexuality, and through examining the whole net, to learn.

They often publish themselves where they think they will be able to gain interest, and then they gather information, knowledge and insight, but only exceptionally it will lead to meetings in reality.

Some pretend to be 18 years old, but are often younger.

These are not fake profiles, but the person behind the profile often has a different agenda than the profile expresses.

Then there are the pedophiles, those who exercise self-esteem by searching and identifying "little" elderly people who are tempted by, or go directly after experiencing youthfulness.

Take care of them. They often act hidden, in bunch, and under the police radar, and their judgments are very often random and without evidence, so they hit some "innocent".


Master_Lance_DK

5/13/2018 5:44 am

I have been on the site, in several laps, in the last period from 12/7/2014, initially primarily as paying member, and later as paying member for periods.

The only thing I have hitherto found out to be on the site is entertainment, and an infinite amount of waste of time.

I have experienced countless interested topics that have addressed that all have seemed very promising but, as I suppose later, are merely so-called "operators". (Many call it Fake's)

The so-called "operators" acting on different sites are usually employees who create a number of "false" profiles, where "operators" in turn act in the role that the individual profile expresses, so the "customer" in The other end thinks they're getting a dream come true.

They are really adept at making people believe that they are in dialogue with, sincerely is a potential subject, and the purpose is to give people the belief that the site can fulfill their wishes so that people become and become paying member on the site but, it's clean amount. (Very widespread)

Therefore, I already demand in any dialogue that the opposite party should come on cam, not necessarily dressed up or with anything sexual, but so I can see that they are the one they publish themselves to be, and then the dialogue often stops " suddenly "at the agreed time.

However, having been exposed to some who then appeared on cam, but it quickly turned out that there were videos taken for the purpose.

Then there are all the deceivers, those who like to take a plane to hand over to Me, like My slave, on arrival, just I just give them the money for the trip. This can not be done by regular bank transfer, but must be done by creepy companies where transfer is done without person registration, simply by enrolling codes, so neither sender nor recipient can be identified. (How dumb can anyone be?)

Then there are all the "offenders" who are just on the verge of making you do something that the following one can print. There are many different ones, each with their "concept".

Then there are all the thieves they seek to lure information out of you so that they can access your personal data. Some so they can hack your PC and can empty your bank accounts. Yes, they are super proficient in inviting you to trust and act in every way as individuals you can fully trust. They are patient, sweet and weird and they meet all of your social online needs.

You can say calmly say that the yield of being on this site is IN NO way in relation to the "investment". All my slaves have I found through other sites, but who knows. Maybe it will happen one day.

Really many of the site's profiles seem like obvious subjects, and maybe just one of them is a real candidate that can lead to mutual fulfillment.

A little naive is always possible, and any naivety, there will always be some pigs looking to exploit.

Beware - Far from everything is as it seems to be.


delos2008 56M
88 posts
5/13/2018 5:21 am

many years have passed...
and yes, I think it was worth it.


verytallsub 43M
375 posts
5/12/2018 5:48 pm

95% of profiles are bots. When they took away the ability to send and read messages for free the site went down hill massively.


olderdaddyforyou 68M

5/12/2018 4:53 pm

It has been good to chat with people. Looks like more fake profiles every day.
Have a few regulars I play with, not expecting to meet anyone any time soon. Nobody of interest in my area


footer77 55M  
186 posts
5/11/2018 6:48 pm

Years ago this was a good place to meet like minded individuals and so I did. Now I have to say that most of this content and profile is not sincere or just fake. The "deactivated" accounts are from professionals who think they can camp out here for clients but eventually get shut down.

Chat , look at blogs, cams, just a place to look around and be entertained.


Hungrynsearching 71M

5/11/2018 9:49 am

Honestly, No. So far, whas t is wanted by othere is money. It has been intwresting though


Baudy52 71M

5/11/2018 6:18 am

So far, ...its a blast. Some days are better than others but as 'entertainment' I give it a 10, for meeting in real time, 2.5. Too many are living out this life on line only. The usual hit and run mentality exists too.

I'm trying to build a good solid group of people, and that will take a lot of time. IMHO


skorpius18 71M  
1342 posts
5/10/2018 8:54 pm

Over ten years, and, if nothing else, it has been entertaining.


rosaenaluin 65F
10834 posts
5/10/2018 11:56 am

I miss the choice for on and off on this site.. so.. i did not vote....


rosaenaluin 65F
10834 posts
5/10/2018 11:56 am

I have been here, on and off since 2009, met some men...
Just bedroom/ sex roleplay players, kinky

Just some kinky vanilla with some bedroom porn fantasie about some roleplaying....amp;

Some blogs are really good to read, write some too...

Worth it?
That depends on what you where hoping to archieve here....

To me, it is cristal clear that most men 99,9% , who are here, just to get their own horny fantasies fulfilled.. nothing more, nothing less
Roleplay some porn fantasy

There is nearly nobody who understands that submission is not just a physical game, to get your rocks off.
There is more, much more to BDSM. then just some sexplay...


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 5/10/2018 1:10 pm:

kalbi1231 70M

5/10/2018 7:36 am

For the most part it's been worth it. I've learned about myself, others and interacting. If I'm learning something, it's always good


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 5/10/2018 1:10 pm:
Learning, exactly.

diavoloslave 62M
202 posts
5/10/2018 5:52 am

been here long time i have met the odd person now and then but it just something i do now to keep informed of what goes on in the lifestyle now, not really worth the effort younger ppl just use it to scam ppl mostly here


looking4fat 72T

5/10/2018 5:22 am

It has been 2 or 3 years now. And because of my location, i have yet to meet with a Real Man who wants to use me.

;(

For most of that time i signed on daily, viewed lots of profiles, posted pics, sent emails, answered Advice Line questions, and participated in groups. In short, i did what it takes to get Free Gold. But with no results. A few weeks ago i finally got frustrated and stopped doing most of that. And,frankly, i don't miss it. So, unless you live in or near a major population center, it is not "worth it." (And maybe even not then.)



My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
5/9/2018 8:45 pm

Been on here since 2008. Read the blogs for about a year before actually starting my own. Met about 15 people here. All pretty wonderful. Never joined though.

Yes, it was worth it.


slaveforyou365 63M  
4488 posts
5/9/2018 5:54 pm



Slave rick


foryou2tease 62M
12 posts
5/9/2018 4:38 pm

Worth what? Have never met anyone from this site after more than 10 years here. So many fake people. Worth paying for? Never made any difference for me - other than having my credit card info stolen here twice. So no, not any more, especially with all the bugs in the system. Still like how you can click on many femaie profiles and it takes you to a cams.com profile. This is no longer a dating site, and certainly not a site to meet anyone. At least not so far. But as someone else opined, there are few other options.


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
5/9/2018 6:10 am

Been here since 1999. Had some interesting exchanges while on cam.
Nowadays, I usually limit myself to the blogs.


aHedonist 51M
7510 posts
5/9/2018 5:13 am

I've been here off and on for a long long time. Made a lot of friends and even met someone special here once too.

Guess I keep coming back because its "home". And leaving because it gets dull after awhile, or life gets in the way..


ohioeagle 74M
2057 posts
5/9/2018 5:09 am

Was a gold member over 10 years now standard. Talked and met a few real and interesting people but nothing lately



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