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Switch4MrRight1 57F
0 posts
3/13/2018 11:34 am
What catches your interest first?

It’s like man shopping

I’ve been at this site for about three weeks, closing in on a month, and I wonder if anyone else out there feels like you’re shopping online. There are so many beautiful looking people here, and so many kinks, and so many stinks lol! So many choices...

What do you find most important when you first assess a profile here?
Their photo, I have to see if they are physically attractive to me first
The description of the person, I like to know their likes, etc
What the person is looking for, so I know if it pertains to me
The extra stuff, kink listings questions answered, blog, etc


timesdwell 27M

3/18/2018 6:36 pm

all ppl are different it seems


MissLoveParty1 42F  
66 posts
3/16/2018 2:03 pm

I search by interests to find the right match. There are many HOT people on this site, but if we don't share interests, there's no point in contacting them. Obviously, I have to be attracted to them.


diavoloslave 62M
202 posts
3/15/2018 12:10 pm

am male so we are visual first but, but then i am sucker for a smart educated smart ass love to laugh so that gets me always


skorpius18 71M  
1342 posts
3/14/2018 7:22 pm

Looks never hurt, but it is always more important knowing if W/we would be compatible.


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
3/14/2018 4:48 am

Looks are important, but I tend to check what the person is looking for first.
Depending on her interests, age and looks may become secondary (to a point, of course...)


looking4fat 72T

3/14/2018 3:11 am

The first thing that catches my attention is the picture. If i don't find Him to be at least marginally attractive (according to my tastes, which are far from the norm) i tend to skim over Him. (Grey silhouettes, usually to go to the bottom of the list.)

The second thing is His username. If it indicates that He is a Top/Dom/Master-type, i will probably check Him out more. If it is a "subby" one, i'll skip him entirely.

But those are just the things that catch my attention. What is MOST important when i assess a profile is Completeness. One or two lame lines of intro just does not do it. I don't need a life story, but i do read the "extra questions" and the "kinks." And any profile that says something like, "I am an open book. If you want to know, just ask." immediately goes in the "shit can." i also see which, if any, groups He belongs to, who His "friends" are, and anything else that He has included. The more info the better. Before i waste His precious time on emails and/or meetings i want to be pretty daRn sure that we are compatible.

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
3/13/2018 3:21 pm

I will admit to the photo......if it's showing all your parts, male or female, I don't even bother


jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
3/13/2018 12:21 pm

I look for # 1, 2 and 3 so did not vote

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 3/13/2018 1:01 pm:
Well I think we all look for everything, but there is usually something that makes us want to click on a profile.


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