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DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
1/30/2018 7:15 am

For me, 24/7 means a live in situation. There may be an underlying d/s element, which come to the forefront on occasion depending on the social situation. Will it mean I dictate the submissive's day to day life? Hell no! Ideally, it is a balanced relationship. it ebbs and flows over time. There may be interactions with others, or may not ever be such. It may or may not have BDSM play elements. It may or may not be exclusive. The base, is simply live in partnership. Overall compatibility , mutual respect and trust. Each is responsible for day to day living. Micromanagement, that some claim to do, is out of the question for me. Blah!

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
1/30/2018 10:51 am

24/7 seems to work spectacularly well in long blog posts, the purpose of which is typically an orgasm.. Every other version I've been told about is discovering there is no such thing as 24/7.. It's like the idea of "slaves", who are slaves until they decide they are not.. "Here, sign this contract" LoL.. Yep, that'll hold up in court.. But, I have no personal experience with the notion.. The only time I see evidence of such, there is typically a news person interviewing a cop telling us the grizzly details..


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
1/30/2018 10:53 am

I just realized.. there is a form of 24/7 that I have experienced.. sarcasm..


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
1/30/2018 10:58 am

    Quoting  :

That is actually about as close as anything gets to 24/7.. I am very curious though: Does he have a "keyword" that means "I aint playing today" id est "steer clear" id est "my maleness is in bloom today"?


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
1/31/2018 4:14 pm

My idea of 24/7 is one in which parties have made a commitment to each other yet do have their own lives. The commitment is always completely understood and each party knows where they stand. Yes, the Domme is always in charge, there is never a question yet that Domme feels comfortable enough with herself to allow her sub to live and grow with all that surrounds her.


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
2/14/2018 10:19 am

Hey HnH.. Hope your absence is about having too much fun in real time.. Happy Valentine's Day..


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
2/24/2018 6:51 am

Thank you for this interesting post, hnhagain, and the commentary. Great to hear about views on the lifestyle. i would do echo what morii, DD, and exhibitbi said.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell



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