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eremcu 61M
795 posts
6/22/2017 3:09 am

Look at the bright side, at least you know they want to make you cum.Ask them one question, what else do you got going on.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
6/22/2017 2:34 pm

Oh, dear,
Now you are touching a very soft spot for most men.

Most men on here, havent got a single clue about the difference between BDSM and kinky sex, they think it is all the same, it is about that THEY get their rocks off, nothing is about you.

BDSM is all about you, as a person, you as a sub or slave, but mostly working on getting an connection with you, build trust and such..

So, that is a way to get rid of the bad apples and go for the good ones.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
6/22/2017 2:41 pm

eremcu : "look at the bright side, at least you know they want to make you cum"....?
yes? so? what did you exactly learn from this post?

This is exactly the wrong answer, this is what she is talking about.
BDSM isnt based on sexacts.


slaaf85_91 61M
447 posts
6/22/2017 9:13 pm

There are rather few alt com members interested to meet in person. Those I did meet in person were seeking for male slaves, volunteers to go naked for them and undergo their scenario. I always talk and negotiate before anything happens and I do that in some gay sauna or kinky club where some social control exists, never at any private address. Over 4 years all dates from alt com except two involved 'some' kinky play but most were not interested in me as a person but in my body to bring their desires in practice. Most wanted me as volunteer to undergo pain and get tortured and at some point please them sexually. Only two meetings involved no sex, one with another slave who wanted to try out some sm techniques and a sadistic Dom who tortured just to watch me react on pain.

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...


plugger51 67M
18 posts
6/23/2017 4:14 am

Well said to many come on here thinking it's a fuck site , love to meet you and have a good chat


eremcu 61M
795 posts
6/23/2017 4:30 am

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    eremcu : "look at the bright side, at least you know they want to make you cum"....?
    yes? so? what did you exactly learn from this post?

    This is exactly the wrong answer, this is what she is talking about.
    BDSM isnt based on sexacts.
rosaenaluin, you may want to pay attention to the second part of what i posted."What else do they have going on", as in, do you have anything else to offer.


IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
6/23/2017 9:43 am

"Why do people treat this site as a pick up or predatory site ??"

Perhaps because the site has been marketed / promoted in such a way that people perceive the site to be a place where they can "pick up" strangers for casual sex. Perfect example: The infamous "Get laid or your money back" promotional campaign which took place several years ago. Some of us who have been members for a decade or more now refer to ALT as a BDFS ( Broke Down Fuck Site ) for good reason.

I remember now.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
6/23/2017 2:32 pm

You must not forget, most people on here, are very occluded sexual, dont know their own body and their likes and dislike, did not explore their own sexuality at all.

so its a way to get some, if only online "fantasy play-sex thing".... a ego boost.

Just as FETLIFE is, and BDSMZAKEN, and all the other sites who mostly all have been taking over by swingers, kinksters and the likes.. the bad ones...

In all that, it is a challenge to find someone who fits your taste AND is honest...



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